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Old 12-18-2012, 05:32 PM
 
Location: Atlanta & NYC
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First of all, that's nonsense but even if that's true, are you going to claim it's the same percentage of ladies who are single in 21-25 vs 25+?



How many women over 30 here constantly complain that they can't find any halfway sane men who are single?
Why are you so damn mathematical with all this relationship stuff? It's not about what percentage is this or that, it's about oh hey lady you're pretty awesome, wanna go on a date?
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Old 12-18-2012, 05:34 PM
 
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If it's so easy, why are you having such a hard time with it?
It's not easy, no part of dating is easy. It's just easier to find somebody below 25 who is single and has the traits men want


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And why don't you want to believe that there are women who are single, attractive, and in-shape over 25?

Alright where the hell did I ever say that?


Did you not read this?


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BTW I am not condoning ageism in this thread


I know a 32 year old black lady at this bar I go to who is absolutely gorgeous, classy, intelligent, etc... who I would take over any 21 year old in a heartbeat. It's just hard to find that in the older age range


I'm not at all saying there's anything wrong with you if you are 30-40+ and single or that you're inherently less attractive or anything like that. Just looking at the overall picture


I don't care about age at all BTW...
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Old 12-18-2012, 05:34 PM
 
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Not true at all. There are lots single women over 25. Trouble is, many men in their 30s (and older!) don't want anything to do with them. They think they "deserve" a 23 year "hottie" even if they are fat, balding and 55. That's what women get mad about.
Agreed. I understand that richer handsome men will try to go after hotter younger women. The problem though is when the less attractive men ignore women in their age range. When I did online I had several guys my age bypass me for this reason. I was better looking, more educated yet they refused to consider me because they wanted 20 year olds.
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Old 12-18-2012, 05:34 PM
 
Location: State of Transition
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I don't see it


Out of the 40 25+ women I know, about 5 of them are single. Among the 10-15 women I know below that age, maybe 6-8 of them are single
Keyword: "I" don't see it! How would you know how many single women there are out there, if you don't talk to women when you go out?! Your horizon is tiny--limited to only the women you know. You know nothing of the millions of women you haven't spoken to.
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Old 12-18-2012, 05:35 PM
 
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even better question? why are those same men super surprised when that young hot girl runs as fast as she can when you go broke or lose your job?

I actually know a 31 year old dude dating a 21 year old. He recently lost his job and she's been working a lot to pay for stuff when they go out. Guy is a total bum in my view



Women are a lot more loyal than people like to claim. I will definitely say that.
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Old 12-18-2012, 05:36 PM
 
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Agreed. I understand that richer handsome men will try to go after hotter younger women. The problem though is when the less attractive men ignore women in their age range. When I did online I had several guys my age bypass me for this reason. I was better looking, more educated yet they refused to consider me because they wanted 20 year olds.

That's absolutely ridiculous, I will say that. If I was in my 40's, I would have no problem at all dating somebody in my age range
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Old 12-18-2012, 05:37 PM
 
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Alot of the older women I know don't have to compete with younger women because they were smart and Locked up great guys with LT potential in their mid to late 20's.
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Old 12-18-2012, 05:37 PM
 
Location: City of Angels
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That's absolutely ridiculous, I will say that. If I was in my 40's, I would have no problem at all dating somebody in my age range
how would you know, you're still extremely young. not much experience in the dating world.
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Old 12-18-2012, 05:38 PM
 
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That's absolutely ridiculous, I will say that. If I was in my 40's, I would have no problem at all dating somebody in my age range
You might but there is this entitlement some men have that they deserve someone much younger and hotter than they are. These guys are mostly found online.
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Old 12-18-2012, 05:38 PM
 
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Why do men get mad when fat women go for fitter men?
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