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While more women have careers more than ever and are making more money than ever, more men still have to pay alimony than women because in MOST relationships, the man does make more than the woman.
Then only marry a woman that makes as much or more than you.
For the average couple that divorces, the man is not supporting two households, he may indirectly be contributing to a portion of the costs though through child support. If the woman wants to stay in her home post divorce for the average person, she's giving up quite a bit, or working more.
You're kidding right?
When the man says to the judge, "I'm working two jobs and your monthly $$ CS judgement takes most of my take home pay!" Judge responds: "Get an additional job".
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is in better shape than that man.
It's also something when she the recipient of said CS and such is many times seen driving a top notch motor vehicle while the man is struggling.
Why should a man get married then when there's women out there like this?
To you genuinely good women: Blame the bad selfish to the core women that either has dampened or ruined your chances of getting married to a great man.
When the man says to the judge, "I'm working two jobs and your monthly $$ CS judgement takes most of my take home pay!" Judge responds: "Get an additional job".
This:
is in better shape than that man.
It's also something when she the recipient of said CS and such is many times seen driving a top notch motor vehicle while the man is struggling.
Why should a man get married then when there's women out there like this?
To you genuinely good women: Blame the bad selfish to the core women that either has dampened or ruined your chances of getting married to a great man.
LMAO. You guys are unbelievable. Why should a woman agree to live with you for a number of years, even if she wants to be married.......oh that's right because it's much more beneficial to you & we all know that's what's most important here.
When the man says to the judge, "I'm working two jobs and your monthly $$ CS judgement takes most of my take home pay!" Judge responds: "Get an additional job".
This:
is in better shape than that man.
It's also something when she the recipient of said CS and such is many times seen driving a top notch motor vehicle while the man is struggling.
Why should a man get married then when there's women out there like this?
To you genuinely good women: Blame the bad selfish to the core women that either has dampened or ruined your chances of getting married to a great man.
I do blame those women because I have seen them ruin marriages. Several of the divorced dads I dated had these ex-wives and they were vultures. The ex husband had to spend over 60% of his paycheck while she sat on her lazy butt. One of these guys married an ambitious woman unlike lazy ex-wife and she went after them to get more money, which she got.
I do blame those women because I have seen them ruin marriages. Several of the divorced dads I dated had these ex-wives and they were vultures. The ex husband had to spend over 60% of his paycheck while she sat on her lazy butt. One of these guys married an ambitious woman unlike lazy ex-wife and she went after them to get more money, which she got.
Then maybe those men should have chosen better partners and signed better pre-nups.
LMAO. You guys are unbelievable. Why should a woman agree to live with you for a number of years, even if she wants to be married.......oh that's right because it's much more beneficial to you & we all know that's what's most important here.
We're speaking of the potential marriage minded men.
Am I understanding that it's okay for the woman to get the benefits and the man = heck with him?
And that because she agreed to be married to a man and lets say they're both working, he has to pay her "x amount" when divorce happens as a back rental owed to her?
lol!
You already know what I think of marriage these days and don't either gain or lose from the "new CD laws" to be signed off so to have even more rights for women while taking freedoms from men - lol!
I've been saying that it's not beneficial for a man to marry these days sadly.
Then maybe those men should have chosen better partners and signed better pre-nups.
Maybe but maybe when they married the wives were decent. Luckily I didn't date these guys that long and it taught me a lesson to avoid men like them. However, no they shouldn't have to support a lazy ex-wife who refuses to work.
The best solution for men is to NOT get married at all.
Same with women. Why would I want to be saddled with some idiot who lazes around watching sports all day and barely pulling his own weight around the house?
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Maybe but maybe when they married the wives were decent. Luckily I didn't date these guys that long and it taught me a lesson to avoid men like them. However, no they shouldn't have to support a lazy ex-wife who refuses to work.
There are ALWAYS red flags. You don't really realize it until the relationship has gone south, but even in my terrible last relationship there were a ton of red flags I ignored because I was so excited a guy actually wanted to date me long term. I should have run far, far away from him but I didn't.
Same with every single one of the bad relationships I've see thus far. There are always red flags that one partner ignores.
We're speaking of the potential marriage minded men.
Am I understanding that it's okay for the woman to get the benefits and the man = heck with him?
And that because she agreed to be married to a man and lets say they're both working, he has to pay her "x amount" when divorce happens as a back rental owed to her?
lol!
You already know what I think of marriage these days and don't either gain or lose from the "new CD laws" to be signed off so to have even more rights for women while taking freedoms from men - lol!
I've been saying that it's not beneficial for a man to marry these days sadly.
I don't know what you're understanding. I'm understanding that men are about as transparent as glass when it comes to their intentions and making excuses for whatever doesn't serve them.
If it's not "beneficial for a man to marry these days," by all means don't.
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Am I understanding that it's okay for the woman to get the benefits and the man = heck with him?
