Women like bad boys and dangerous men. Fact or fiction? (Christian, friend)
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Bad boys in movies, books, and TV show are hot and desirable because they are not really bad boys. They are soft centers with a hard candy shell. They are attractive because you can imagine you are the one that gets to break through that hard candy shell to the soft center. Bad boys in real life are not attractive or desirable to an woman who values her worth because there is no soft center. I think that some fictional characters that are bad boys are yummy. I've never had an interest in any real life bad boy. I deserve more than that.
Bad boys in movies, books, and TV show are hot and desirable because they are not really bad boys. They are soft centers with a hard candy shell. They are attractive because you can imagine you are the one that gets to break through that hard candy shell to the soft center. Bad boys in real life are not attractive or desirable to an woman who values her worth because there is no soft center. I think that some fictional characters that are bad boys are yummy. I've never had an interest in any real life bad boy. I deserve more than that.
Yes, in the same way men have a white knight syndrome where they try to champion and rescue women from hard life circumstances, women sometimes have this reformist obsession where they try to, as you say, break through to the soft centre, even when they know in the back of their minds none exists.
Perhaps I should have quoted...but I was on my phone at the time and it's kind of a pain in the butt to do so. Another poster said that single moms go after the 'good guys' after the 'bad boys' get them knocked up. I just reiterated that I'm not a single mom and I prefer the good guys.
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Originally Posted by cwamjn
No ish. What was that dig for?
This forum has a bizarre fascination with vilifying single mothers. Thank goodness the real world is nothing like this forum.
Yes, in the same way men have a white knight syndrome where they try to champion and rescue women from hard life circumstances, women sometimes have this reformist obsession where they try to, as you say, break through to the soft centre, even when they know in the back of their minds none exists.
Exactly. It's the same as the guys that go for the drug addicted women who have hit rock bottom thinking that they can be rescued and will be forever grateful. Doesn't usually work out that way.
Let these women love those bad boys. They'll learn the hard way and come running to us when they become bottom dwellers. I have no pity for those type of women.
Let these women love those bad boys. They'll learn the hard way and come running to us when they become bottom dwellers. I have no pity for those type of women.
After they've had they're fill of riding the carousel and have a demon spawn or two of some bad boy that dumped them, then they will come to you. But will you want them then, when they are past their prime? That's why you have to learn game now.
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