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This is the girls version of that thread what can a guy do to get a gf.
Just to make a few things clear (so people don't get all personal on me):
-I'm not looking (I've had bfs, but some of my friends my age haven't, and I realize I can't give them any advice, because I felt like the bfs I've had were mainly accidents. We just happened to need the same things at the same time and thought the other person was right at that time. for me it was about timing, but if someone were actually looking, I wouldn't know what to tell them.)
-and please don't say just sleep with a guy. Because that does not make you their gf!
-umm and yes they shower, look decent, are smart girls, not virgins, but somehow the bf thing just isn't clicking for them. It seems fairly common these days actually. Maybe it's our hook up culture?
Be honest with yourself and what you want. Don't hide behind ideals, be who you are. Far too often, as a man in the dating world, women are more concerned with trying to portray themselves as something they are not. The biggest confusion amongst men with women is when women say one thing and do another. Remember men look at actions, not idle charm and a few nice words. Sometimes women feel they should be judge but what they say and not what they do. Put forth more action and less charm, and that will go far with a man. You'll have a man who value you, and make an effort to understand you.
As a female...personally...i don't think we have to do much other than show up. lol! I mean...it seems almost natural for guys to want a relationship with us. Online or offline. It's kinda just...natural? lol
I would suggest existing. Just exist.
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