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Old 05-25-2013, 01:00 PM
 
Location: Elsewhere
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Two come to mind: After a coffee date the man wanted me to go sit in his car so he could lick and suck my forearms.
So...was it something you would recommend?
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Old 05-25-2013, 01:03 PM
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Location: Phoenix,AZ
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I have no idea how one would go about sucking a forearm.

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Old 05-25-2013, 02:28 PM
 
Location: Southern Illinois
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So...was it something you would recommend?
LOL, it might have been tempting if I'd been into him but maybe for another date, lol. I mean, I can imagine that it might feel nice.

To YAZ: can you imagine getting hickeys on your forearm and how you'd explain that to the ladies and fellas at work?

To mule: Love the hillbilly date story. Keep em coming--I see a book in you.
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Old 05-25-2013, 03:34 PM
 
Location: Tri-State Area
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This is going to be fun:

1) I'm being sexually harrassed at work. I mean look at my girls, they are a DD and my back is killing me right now. Said while the waiter was pouring water into my glass at dinner - he almost dropped the pitcher on himself.

2) We originally met for coffee, I was hungry so I asked her if she was interested in grabbing a bite to eat. We pass by a nice looking restaurant, I said how about here, she looked at me and said "you can't afford this place". Can't make this stuff up!
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Old 05-25-2013, 03:47 PM
 
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That's pretty common. Men lie about their height ALL the time. I can't tell you how many times men have told me that I MUST be taller than 6'1" because THEY are 6'3"...and I can see the top of his head.

Men, why lie about your height????? It's OBVIOUS that you are lying. You can't fake height. I don't get this one.
Same as people who lie about weight. 200 pounds is not ''chubby'', it is obese.

There is no point in hiding anything about your appearance, because if you present yourself one way, and show up differently, it is over before it started.

Be authentic to who you are, warts and all, because pretending to be someone else, is a disaster.
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Old 05-25-2013, 06:00 PM
 
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Great tale, muleskinner .
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Old 05-25-2013, 08:15 PM
 
Location: Democratic Peoples Republic of Redneckistan
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Great tale, muleskinner .
Thank you..I'm a walking,talking disaster,but I sure do have a good time...even when I ain't
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Old 05-28-2013, 08:11 AM
 
Location: New Jersey
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You know,this online dating stuff is something I have never understood...aren't you girls scared to do that stuff?hell,as rough as I am I'm scared of it and wouldn't even think about doing it.
I've been with my faince for 8 years now, but before I met him I tried the online thing. It never worked well for me. It was scary but at the time I just wasn't finding anyone at school to date.
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Old 05-28-2013, 08:26 AM
 
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Same as people who lie about weight. 200 pounds is not ''chubby'', it is obese.

There is no point in hiding anything about your appearance, because if you present yourself one way, and show up differently, it is over before it started.

Be authentic to who you are, warts and all, because pretending to be someone else, is a disaster.

Well, 200 pounds isn't obese if you are 7 feet tall!

Okay, in all seriousness I get what you are saying. It's weird that people lie about things like weight, height, age, etc when eventually you are going to see someone face-to-face. It's like you said, over before it's started.

I think I am lucky in that I just don't take good pictures (not photogenic for some reason--I always seem to be blinking, or I try to compensate and hold my eyes open so I am "bug eyed," or the flash washes me out, or the angle is bad, or someone took a picture of me scuba diving so I am no makeup, stringy salt-water soaked hair, etc). So that means back when I tried online dating, I almost always looked better in person than in the photos! A lot all the men I went out with said so too. And yeah, I am ashamed to admit it would feed my ego when I got a, "wow, you are really pretty" comment or two. I don't know, maybe they were just buttering me up, if they were, it was working because it made me feel good. It's too bad I never met anyone online though. Like I said, I dated a lot of crazies and jerks. I met a few nice guys too, but it never worked out for one reason or another--there was just no chemistry.

I might try online again during the summer. But I don't know just yet. I was hoping to try single's events and such but so far, I haven't been able to make it to any that are being held in my area because of other obligations on the same days. Seems like my weekends are either over booked with friends wanting to go out, single events, and diving events all on the same day... or I have nothing.
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Old 05-28-2013, 08:44 AM
 
Location: Chicago, IL
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I have no idea how one would go about sucking a forearm.


Probably much like sucking any other body part.
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