I made a big stupid mistake, he's angry. I need advice (marry, guys)
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Learn a big lesson here, first do not drink to excess so you can control everything that comes out of your mouth.
Next do NOT DISCUSS SEX or any part of sex with friends, especially drunk friends at a party.
Next DO APOLOGIZE more than once but do not be surprised when you are no longer engaged or even together as a couple and honestly I cannot say I would blame him at all. You completely embarrassed him in front of a LOT OF FRIENDS. You should have dressed him in a diaper and paraded him around the block, that would be less traumatic for him.
IF he stays with you I would be absolutely shocked and I can tell you if he actually does forgive you for such a tremendous act of downright being thoughtless and cruel he is a bigger man than I am (if I was a man that is).
There are things that should always remain behind closed doors and specifics of your relationships and your sexual relationship in particular should ALWAYS REMAIN BEHIND CLOSED DORRS AND NEVER OPEN FOR DISCUSSION, except with each other.
Apologize profusely. Point out what it is you love about him. I'm hoping sex with him is one of the things that you love about him because then you can at least give some reassurance in this area while remaining honest.
Don't be surprised if he wants a break.
And whoever asked that question is a bit of a jerk too. Really? Why ask that?
Hmm. How small is small? Five inches and a bit is about normal/average for North America ... You may be able to reassure him if he's actually in the normal range.
Anyway, he will probably get over it - mostly. After all, now that you've made this public it will get around town. No one else will date him so the only option he has left is you - that, or move to another state.
Apologize profusely. Point out what it is you love about him. I'm hoping sex with him is one of the things that you love about him because then you can at least give some reassurance in this area while remaining honest.
Don't be surprised if he wants a break.
And whoever asked that question is a bit of a jerk too. Really? Why ask that?
Actually women and men tend to ask that question all the time and I don't see them as jerks.
It is those who ANSWER THE QUESTION in front of LOTS OF FRIENDS that are actually the JERKS.
OK I got to go. He's going to be here soon. I'll play it by ear and hope for the best. I haven't decided exactly how I'm going to apologize but I will. If I get a chance I'll log back on later. Thanks.
Actually women and men tend to ask that question all the time and I don't see them as jerks.
It is those who ANSWER THE QUESTION in front of LOTS OF FRIENDS that are actually the JERKS.
I've never answered the question. I still find the question rude, irritating and pointless. Obviously people who answer the question are bigger jerks. But why even ask this question in the first place? I feel an instantaneous dislike for people that ask questions like this in public settings.
If he's smaller than average, he probably has anxiety about it to begin with. You took that love boat and nuked it out of the water, then you shot all the survivors by doing it in front of his friends.
You can try apologizing profusely, but as a guy (especially since he already spent the night at someone else's house) I'd be absolutely shocked if he stayed with you for long.
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I feel an instantaneous dislike for people that ask questions like this in public settings.
