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Old 07-10-2013, 02:49 PM
 
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Hi everybody. I need some advice really quick please. i screwed up and I have to do something to make it right.

My guy and I have been together for a year and a half. We got engaged in April. We really are great for each other and we get along terrific.

Anyway, day before yesterday we were at a party at my best girlfriend's house. Everybody including me had drunk alot. My guy (I'll call him "Ian" but that not really his name) had a few drinks as well but not as much as me. At some point people were talking in groups and laughing and all that. The conversation in my group turned to sex and the topic of "male size" came up. My girlfriend said everybody talks about the "big ones" but not about the "small ones." She then alughed and asked me who had the smallest one in my experience. I didn't think before I opened my mouth because I answered Ian. Well Ian gave me a stuned and shocked look. I recovered and said that I was kidding but I think the damage was done. The friends ion our group sort of sobered up and left the group.

ian and I haven't discussed anything about this when we left or since. Yesterday when we left for work he had very few words to say. He later left me a voicemail that he was going to stay at his bud's place which I guess he did.

He's going to come home tonight and I really want to repair things and make good. All suggestions would be really really welcome. Thanks.

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Old 07-10-2013, 02:51 PM
 
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ouch.. that's a head scratcher
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Old 07-10-2013, 02:53 PM
 
Location: Lemon Heights, Orange County, CA
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Can you be more vague?
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Old 07-10-2013, 02:53 PM
 
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Oral may fix the problem assuming he doesn't fall asleep
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Old 07-10-2013, 02:54 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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I'm trying really hard, Liz, but I can't read your mind.
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Old 07-10-2013, 02:55 PM
 
Location: Lemon Heights, Orange County, CA
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Oral may fix the problem assuming he doesn't fall asleep
Assuming she has skills
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Old 07-10-2013, 02:57 PM
 
Location: Katonah, NY
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Wow - that was a big mistake! The only way to fix it would be to.
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Old 07-10-2013, 02:57 PM
 
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I have cuts on my knuckles from the punching bag.

Oh and I ran out of my meds yesterday. This could be a problem for my coworkers tomorrow.

Yeah, I like posting inane stuff.
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Old 07-10-2013, 02:58 PM
 
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Maybe start w/ an apology?
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Old 07-10-2013, 02:59 PM
 
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Sorry I saved by mistake before I wrote it all. I have now fixed it i think
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