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Not interested in a prostitute.
I have wondered for a long time if men and women expect too much from each other. All the things one has to be in order to be considered datable. Then there's the worst case scenario expectation guys build up in their minds about approaching women. I have been guilty of this myself in the past. If not for the women whom passed through my life I would still be guilty of it. As I have mentioned before I do not approach because women seem unapproachable. No smiles or when I catch a woman looking at me and she immediately turns away? All clear signs of disinterest. Why bother approaching?
There isn't all these things one HAS to be to be considered dateable. Some people, men AND women, are easier to get into bed than others. You OVERTHINK and OVER analyze things, part of your problem and others of your kind. Women seem unapproachable due in large part to you never having shared the ultimate act of intimacy WITH a woman. There is this MYSTERY/aura of the unknown you cannot reconcile mentally/emotionally all because you have both been unable to pursue a relationship wherein the physical act would occur and even after decades of NO RESULTS doing what you've been doing you stubbornly refuse a simple business transaction that would result in that very same ACT that handcuffs you emotionally and makes you have no confidence with women. YES, many women will NOT be interested in you! So WHAT?! There are good looking successful men who HAVE HAD SEX many times that if they are still pursuing women, APPROACHING women, they can and will sometimes still get turned down, SO WHAT?! They're not timid and so easily discouraged as you, if woman 25 turns you down, SO WHAT?! Keep asking, keep approaching. You support yourself financially? Chances are like most your first few job interviews didn't result in an immediate hire. But you don't just quit entirely and say screw it. You literally do not know what your missing. Myself, I'm a VERY sexual person and have been from a very young age, I CANNOT imagine being in my FORTIES never even having had sex, it is one of the greatest pleasures of life. If you put NOTHING in, expect NOTHING BACK. Woman 49 might also say no, and it might hurt, but you never KNOW with woman 50 FOR SURE, if she'll got to bed with you, if you don't even say HELLO cause she's not in your photo arts class or you don't know her from work! Tons of guys are married and have children with women they didn't KNOW other than they saw them at school, or in a bar or club, or ON THE STREET, you COULD be like one of those guys if you chose to be, you only hold yourself back, assuming your at least mildly attractive and can hold a conversation and be charming in the least. You can have sex without it having to be anything more than the physical act, and before your a 60 year old virgin doing your same old routine of failure you might more strongly consider going the escort route just to make some PROGRESS towards becoming a sexually capable and competent man a woman would want to have sex with.
There isn't all these things one HAS to be to be considered dateable. Some people, men AND women, are easier to get into bed than others. You OVERTHINK and OVER analyze things, part of your problem and others of your kind. Women seem unapproachable due in large part to you never having shared the ultimate act of intimacy WITH a woman. There is this MYSTERY/aura of the unknown you cannot reconcile mentally/emotionally all because you have both been unable to pursue a relationship wherein the physical act would occur and even after decades of NO RESULTS doing what you've been doing you stubbornly refuse a simple business transaction that would result in that very same ACT that handcuffs you emotionally and makes you have no confidence with women. YES, many women will NOT be interested in you! So WHAT?! There are good looking successful men who HAVE HAD SEX many times that if they are still pursuing women, APPROACHING women, they can and will sometimes still get turned down, SO WHAT?! They're not timid and so easily discouraged as you, if woman 25 turns you down, SO WHAT?! Keep asking, keep approaching. You support yourself financially? Chances are like most your first few job interviews didn't result in an immediate hire. But you don't just quit entirely and say screw it. You literally do not know what your missing. Myself, I'm a VERY sexual person and have been from a very young age, I CANNOT imagine being in my FORTIES never even having had sex, it is one of the greatest pleasures of life. If you put NOTHING in, expect NOTHING BACK. Woman 49 might also say no, and it might hurt, but you never KNOW with woman 50 FOR SURE, if she'll got to bed with you, if you don't even say HELLO cause she's not in your photo arts class or you don't know her from work! Tons of guys are married and have children with women they didn't KNOW other than they saw them at school, or in a bar or club, or ON THE STREET, you COULD be like one of those guys if you chose to be, you only hold yourself back, assuming your at least mildly attractive and can hold a conversation and be charming in the least. You can have sex without it having to be anything more than the physical act, and before your a 60 year old virgin doing your same old routine of failure you might more strongly consider going the escort route just to make some PROGRESS towards becoming a sexually capable and competent man a woman would want to have sex with.
That long blurb was really unnecessary. Why are you guys trying so hard to convince jma to see your point of view. Do you have a personal stake in him losing his virginity?
There isn't all these things one HAS to be to be considered dateable. Some people, men AND women, are easier to get into bed than others. You OVERTHINK and OVER analyze things, part of your problem and others of your kind. Women seem unapproachable due in large part to you never having shared the ultimate act of intimacy WITH a woman. There is this MYSTERY/aura of the unknown you cannot reconcile mentally/emotionally all because you have both been unable to pursue a relationship wherein the physical act would occur and even after decades of NO RESULTS doing what you've been doing you stubbornly refuse a simple business transaction that would result in that very same ACT that handcuffs you emotionally and makes you have no confidence with women. YES, many women will NOT be interested in you! So WHAT?! There are good looking successful men who HAVE HAD SEX many times that if they are still pursuing women, APPROACHING women, they can and will sometimes still get turned down, SO WHAT?! They're not timid and so easily discouraged as you, if woman 25 turns you down, SO WHAT?! Keep asking, keep approaching. You support yourself financially? Chances are like most your first few job interviews didn't result in an immediate hire. But you don't just quit entirely and say screw it. You literally do not know what your missing. Myself, I'm a VERY sexual person and have been from a very young age, I CANNOT imagine being in my FORTIES never even having had sex, it is one of the greatest pleasures of life. If you put NOTHING in, expect NOTHING BACK. Woman 49 might also say no, and it might hurt, but you never KNOW with woman 50 FOR SURE, if she'll got to bed with you, if you don't even say HELLO cause she's not in your photo arts class or you don't know her from work! Tons of guys are married and have children with women they didn't KNOW other than they saw them at school, or in a bar or club, or ON THE STREET, you COULD be like one of those guys if you chose to be, you only hold yourself back, assuming your at least mildly attractive and can hold a conversation and be charming in the least. You can have sex without it having to be anything more than the physical act, and before your a 60 year old virgin doing your same old routine of failure you might more strongly consider going the escort route just to make some PROGRESS towards becoming a sexually capable and competent man a woman would want to have sex with.
I am not interested in prostitutes. Never have been. Never will be. I am much better meeting women my way. Approaching a woman I do not know and trying to start a conversation would not go well for me. No I am not afraid of rejection either.
It's impossible for most of our ancestors to be female.
This is false. DNA sequencing of modern humans indicates that 80% of all the human females who have ever lived have successfully reproduced. That number stands at 40% for males. So, throughout all of human history, more than 3/4 of females have reproduced, while less than half of all males have.
Food for thought. There have always been surplus males, and there always will be.
If I do, then they haven't told me about this yet.
Out of curiosity--how exactly does one define "virgin" here--for instance, does having gay sex count or not?
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