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If you think I'm using you for sex, scram. It's meant to be fun for everyone, not relationship bait. If that's your game, find some limp dic*, so you don't feel used and confused.
Guys: If a girl you were seeing flat out asked you if you are just interested in her for sex, would you tell her the truth if you were? And what would you say?
Id laugh, cause I make it crystal clear from the beginning that I'm only using her for sex.
Who cares??? I'm tired of hearing about women say they've been "used for sex" like it's some sort of rip-off or scam. Isn't sex something that is mutually enjoyed between two people? Isn't it pleasurable? How are you getting scammed by having a free pleasurable experience?
Who cares??? I'm tired of hearing about women say they've been "used for sex" like it's some sort of rip-off or scam. Isn't sex something that is mutually enjoyed between two people? Isn't it pleasurable? How are you getting scammed by having a free pleasurable experience?
I see your point, but I think most women need to feel that the guy they're with sees them as more than just sex. There's nothing wrong with just being a booty call but I think both parties should be aware that, that is all it is.
Who cares??? I'm tired of hearing about women say they've been "used for sex" like it's some sort of rip-off or scam. Isn't sex something that is mutually enjoyed between two people? Isn't it pleasurable? How are you getting scammed by having a free pleasurable experience?
Because sex to some people means more than a pleasurable experience.
Who cares??? I'm tired of hearing about women say they've been "used for sex" like it's some sort of rip-off or scam. Isn't sex something that is mutually enjoyed between two people? Isn't it pleasurable? How are you getting scammed by having a free pleasurable experience?
Yea, I agree here.
But at the end of the day, guys lie a lot of the time just to get a woman to sleep with them. But most of the time, the guys that lie should be able to be spotted from pretty far away. Make sure a guys actions match up with his words. If they don't, then he is full of BS.
Also, if a woman sleep with a guy on the first or second date, you don't even make it a challenge for the guy, and many many guys will consider you at best a FWB. And see how that works? IMO, a FWB is also when someone is used for sex. BUT, since both people are having so much fun, no one really considers it 'using'.
Honestly, now that I think about it, the only time I hear someone compaign about being used for sex is if the sex isn't good, or the other person isn't that good looking.
How many times have you heard the following, "OMG, that HOT guy was totally using me for sex, I'm SOOOOO pissed!"
I've never heard that complaint, and of the hot guys I know, women are EXTREMELY eager to do ANYTHING a guy wants in the bedroom. I think at the of the day, the excuse, "he used me for sex!" is a way to push the responsibility of the relationship on the other person. But in reality, it seemed like a good idea at the time, and for whatever reason one person decides they had enough of the 'using' and then has to explain their short tryst to their friends.
And really, guys complain often (myself included) that woman use them for free meals, entertainment, etc. Doesn't the guy have fun also ?
The key thing to learn is that people will use other people for anything really. Do you want to let someone use you ? I have let women use me, and I used to give the benefit of the doubt. I have adjusted my lifestyle to decrease the opportunity for being used. I really have only myself to blame for being used.
Anyone that is used over and over again is either lieing and trying to cover up their intentions, or they continue to let others use them over and over. It shouldn't be that hard to figure out when someone is using you.
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