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Old 08-16-2013, 08:57 PM
 
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She's a ****.

I guess she felt breaking up with you first before she banged the other guy eased her conscience. That is, if she has one.
Bingo. And honestly, I had no idea how promiscuous she was until she broke up with me and literally was dating someone else the next day(guess she had the dude lined up while we were still together.) And the only reason I got back together with her a month later was for sex and to have someone to hang out with every now and then. Chances that I will ever rekindle a legitimate relationship with her are zero.

To the folks commenting about condom use: I know! And yes, I was very stupid. Won't happen again. Last time I had sex with her was a week ago. So far so good. My willy is still intact and no itchies or unsightlies have appeared.

Thanks for the comments.
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Old 08-16-2013, 10:39 PM
 
Location: Southern California
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I've been dating a girl for 3 months. During that time we were exclusive. We had a little fight and she broke up with me. A month later she called and wanted to get back together. So I did. On our third day back together I asked her if she dated anyone else during our time off. She said yes. I asked her if they had sex, she said yes, but started to get defensive and agitated.

Mind you, this is a woman that I have sex with and therefore feel I need to know about her recent sexual history. So I further asked her, when did she stop having sex with him. She got up and left and I haven't talked to her since. That was 3 days ago.

Why did she react that way to my questions?
Because you were all up inher shizz and had no business doing so. Hello? You broke up...the end...!

[what she did while the two of you were not together is not your business]
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Old 08-16-2013, 11:10 PM
 
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Because you were all up inher shizz and had no business doing so. Hello? You broke up...the end...!

[what she did while the two of you were not together is not your business]
dudicus maximus, have you not been following the thread. I asked her because we were having sex and I wanted to know if she was clean. As in std-free. You see, that's the way it works. When you have sex with someone you can transmit their partner's diseases too. I could link you to a site that explains how std's work if you want. I simply wanted to know if it was safe to stick my d!ck in her. Why is this so hard to understand?
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Old 08-16-2013, 11:19 PM
 
Location: Southern California
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dudicus maximus, have you not been following the thread. I asked her because we were having sex and I wanted to know if she was clean. As in std-free. You see, that's the way it works. When you have sex with someone you can transmit their partner's diseases too. I could link you to a site that explains how std's work if you want. I simply wanted to know if it was safe to stick my d!ck in her. Why is this so hard to understand?
If you think know so much, why are you asking us?

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Old 08-16-2013, 11:39 PM
 
Location: Coastal Mid-Atlantic
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You've been used for sex. We've been doing it for 100's of years. You have had your fun. Dont get attached. Staying with her and expecting a meaningful relationship is nothing but trouble waiting to happen. Move on.
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Old 08-16-2013, 11:43 PM
 
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Because judging by your reaction she knew you'd dump her, so she just cut it short.
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Old 08-17-2013, 12:12 AM
 
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Because judging by your reaction she knew you'd dump her, so she just cut it short.
Yeah, I think this pretty well sums it up. I guess I didn't think she'd figure that out.
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Old 08-17-2013, 12:25 AM
 
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People who measure their relationship drama in DAYS make me laugh.
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Old 08-17-2013, 12:45 AM
 
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People who measure their relationship drama in DAYS make me laugh.
I suppose it all is a bit laughable, if not trivial when compared to something like divorce. However, it's still nice to get some different perspectives. And I appreciate those who have taken the time to offer theirs.
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Old 08-17-2013, 12:49 AM
 
Location: Chicago
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Of course it's my business. I'm Mod cut: Inappropriate language her so it's my business. And yes, she's on the pill, so no condom is used.
But is that the real reason you want to know? Is it really a health issue?

It doesn't sound like it to me. And I bet it doesn't sound like it to her, either. It sounds more like you want to get dirt on her to use later if you need to. You need to stop asking. Let it go.

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