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So when you meet women, do you tell them? Do they run away or are they cool with it?
Someone having married more than twice or never by the age of 50 are both equally red flags IMO.
How in the world is never marrying by the age of 50 a red flag? Doesn't really make any sense to me.
It could just be as simple as they never found a person that they wanted to marry (yet at least), and decided not to just marry anyone for the sake of it.
A woman who has been divorced once is a red flag to me, I don't care how the marriage ended either.
Four time divorcee will make me a run for the hills.
No thanks.
What???
I was with my now ex-husband for 24 years and he left me for another woman. Why am I now thought of as a red flag? Does his cheating make me un-dateable? Should I have stayed in the marriage? (Three's a crowd for me.)
What???
I was with my now ex-husband for 24 years and he left me for another woman. Why am I now thought of as a red flag? Does his cheating make me un-dateable? Should I have stayed in the marriage? (Three's a crowd for me.)
That guy was an a** and he did you a favor by leaving so you can do better.
I'm sure you'll find someone who'll accept you (You probably already have) but I don't date divorced women.
I wonder if the 4 ex-wives got a good benefits from their divorce. Does he pay any alimony?
I'm wondering if he collects alimony from his wives, I wouldn't be surprised if the women were financially better off than he is. I would never marry a man that has been married 4 times, unless of course I want to hold the title ex-wife #5! Heck, I wouldn't even consider a man that has been divorced twice. If you couldn't figure it out the second time around, I wouldn't be interested. As for third times a charm, yeah right!!
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Lol. I was married & divorced three times. Decided I wasn't good marriage material & have been single now for over ,20 years. Best decision I ever made.
My son told me one, Mom, don't get married again. You're not good at that. How right he was.
My mom had been married more than 3x, her last marriage was in Kentucky, same place that stupid county clerk Kim Davis refused to give marriage licenses to gay folks. Davis should have had more of a problem with my mother getting married for the millionth time IMO, than a gay couple getting married for the first time.
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How in the world is never marrying by the age of 50 a red flag? Doesn't really make any sense to me.
It could just be as simple as they never found a person that they wanted to marry (yet at least), and decided not to just marry anyone for the sake of it.
No, it doesn't make any sense. For your reasons, or the person they found and wanted to marry didn't want to marry them, or get married at all.
I've never met someone (socially) that has been divorced twice, so I can't imagine this actually happening.
I find that hard to believe. You've probably met thousands of women. How could not one of them have been divorced twice?
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