Would you "go for" someone who had been divorced four times? (dates, engagement)
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I guess I need to define boomer better then. I am 45 Gen X and find women up to maybe 52 attractive, so I guess I am safe.
The boomers were born 1946 - 1964 so the very tail end of the boomers are 51 this year. I've had few problems with the younger boomers but you get into the 60+ boomers and all I can do is shake my head in either disbelief or disgust with there being a literal handful of exceptions.
If he was a wonderful caring loving faithful husband and all 4 women burned him, he would have to be a complete raving utter idiot to want to get married again
chances are HE is the reason for the 4 divorces...whatever that reason(s) might be
if after 9 mos they are talking marriage, I would be worried...at the very least THAT is why he has been divorced so many times...he rushes into it...but chances are its worse than that...maybe as a newlywed husband he is STRONG coming out of the gate but tires quickly and the marriage grows cold...who knows
I would not marry someone who have been divorced more than once...
Some people just like being married and keep doing it, hoping this is the one. My last GF was married 4 times, and we were together 7 years and had a great relationship. She was a wonderful lady who had just gotten into 4 marriages that, for one reason or another, didn't work out.
What killed our long run was the fact I am never going to remarry and that wasn't what she was looking for.
But I have to admit, that when we started dating and learned she had been married 4 times before, I said to myself "Holy Hell !" That is kind of a scary number and makes you wonder.
Perhaps the guy is just an absolute sucker. Maybe he has this emotional disorder that causes him to feel like in order to be happy, he should be married. Maybe he has terrible woman choosing skills. There are many reasons why people jump from marriage to marriage. For example, maybe his parents were totally dysfunctional together, and in some way it's affecting him. Perhaps his parents were perfect together, and he feels he must emulate that. Failed marriage or marriages does not make a person unlovable, it just means it takes someone with an above average iq and sense of empathy to realize that there are conditions that are bigger than the person that's being affected.
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