Please register to participate in our discussions with 2 million other members - it's free and quick! Some forums can only be seen by registered members. After you create your account, you'll be able to customize options and access all our 15,000 new posts/day with fewer ads.
Haven't you heard that if someone invites you to there place for "coffee" it doesn't mean coffee, it means sex. That was in a Sienfeld episode like 15-20 years ago. This is NOT a new concept in the dating world, PLEASE!!!
You just proved my point! That episode was about inviting someone up at the end of an evening date! If I invite you over for lunch or coffee in the middle of the day, it's not an invitation to jump me! Pls read and digest the post you responded to.
You just proved my point! That episode was about inviting someone up at the end of an evening date! If I invite you over for lunch or coffee in the middle of the day, it's not an invitation to jump me! Pls read and digest the post you responded to.
No one is talking about being invited for lunch or coffee in the middle of the day. OP and a romantic interest were in bed watching a movie. Two very different situations. Anyone with any dating experience knows what the latter means. You are trying so hard to be right that you are grasping for straws and creating scenarios out of thin air. Read and digest. Seriously.
Last edited by luckynumber4; 09-01-2013 at 01:36 PM..
No one is talking about being invited for lunch or coffee in the middle of the day. OP and a romantic interest were in bed watching a movie. Two very different situations. Anyone with any dating experience knows what the latter means. You are trying so hard to be right that you are grasping for straws and creating scenarios out of thin air. Read and digest. Seriously.
Follow the conversation. It broadened to inviting someone over anytime, a couple of pages ago. And willow bear ignored 1/2 the post s/he was responding to.
She invited him into her home and jumped into bed with him. Leave "attack" and other highly charged verbs out of this please. That's very destructive to insinuate he would have been raping her or something. She wanted to fool around and basically kicked him to the curb for pussing out. That's what happened. Deal with reality. Deal with female behavior and accept that it can be duplicitous and nonsensical. I have and so should he.
I wasn't implying a brute force attack. Sheesh. Lighten up.
Next, he said they sat on the bed. Above the covers. This is not jumping INTO bed with someone. It's sitting on the damned bed, watching TV.
I suspect she thought he'd make some kind of move. Kissing, hand-holding, maybe a little more...
But, I betcha if he'd tried to have sex with her, she would've turned it down.
Call it women's intuition.
__________________
When in doubt, check it out: FAQ
No one is talking about being invited for lunch or coffee in the middle of the day. OP and a romantic interest were in bed watching a movie. Two very different situations. Anyone with any dating experience knows what the latter means. You are trying so hard to be right that you are grasping for straws and creating scenarios out of thin air. Read and digest. Seriously.
Second date.
No. She wasn't inviting him to have sex with her. When a woman genuinely wants to get laid and has a captive man sitting on her bed watching TV with her? She makes a move.
My guess is that she was expecting more overt interest from him so that she could gauge his interest in her and use it to control their interactions.
I suspect she was on the fence about the OP already.
If she was really into him and only got a goodnight kiss, she would likely have needed a verbal reassurance that he was interested.
The OP could've just told her it was all he could do to maintain his gentlemanly behavior that night. Girl would've been flattered. Felt more confident. Next time she asked him over? Game on.
Trust me. I never had problems like some of the crazy mess I read on here. Sheesh.
__________________
When in doubt, check it out: FAQ
I never said that. We were below the covers & laying down.
I thought you said you were sitting on the bed.
Ugh. Yeah. If you were lying down under the covers and didn't at least try to make out with her and grope her a little, she assumed you were a cold fish.
You learned something new. Next time, you'll know better.
You insulted her. I think that if she had really been into you, you could have recovered after this.
Her dropping you tells me she's got more interesting prospects.
__________________
When in doubt, check it out: FAQ
I never said that. We were below the covers & laying down.
Please register to post and access all features of our very popular forum. It is free and quick. Over $68,000 in prizes has already been given out to active posters on our forum. Additional giveaways are planned.
Detailed information about all U.S. cities, counties, and zip codes on our site: City-data.com.
Please register to participate in our discussions with 2 million other members - it's free and quick! Some forums can only be seen by registered members. After you create your account, you'll be able to customize options and access all our 15,000 new posts/day with fewer ads.
