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Old 06-08-2015, 11:11 AM
 
Location: Jupiter
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It depends on how you define unattractive. I'm sure there were guys who played sports who weren't really good looking, but just attracted women because they were one of the "cool" guys. I'm not talking about creepy, loner, future serial killer types.
I didn't pay attention to sports in college. I just knew that the unattractive guys there weren't ever with a woman. They were usually alone or with other male friends. I also don't care who a woman likes unless it's me.
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Old 06-08-2015, 05:53 PM
 
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We are different and what one person might deem as attractive another might not, it all comes down to your own ideal of perfect, taste etc, etc ! So there no right or wrong here....~ Like that old saying, beauty in the eyes of the beholder..
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Old 06-08-2015, 06:12 PM
 
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When I was in college attractive women weren't nice to unattractive guys. My opinion stands. Attractive women think unattractive broke guys are creeps.
Fixed that for you.
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Old 06-08-2015, 09:59 PM
 
Location: Jupiter
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Fixed that for you.
No you didn't. I meant what I said.
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Old 09-06-2015, 01:28 AM
 
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This woman is speaking truth.
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Old 09-06-2015, 01:29 AM
 
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I've seen one of the women that you were drooling over. Most of the posters on here thought she was completely fake looking. She had fake boobs and wore a ton of makeup. That "porn star" look is not universal and standardized. Many people prefer someone who looks more natural. A naturally beautiful woman doesn't need a ton of make up, plastic surgery, and designer clothes to look beautiful. That was my only point. You don't need a lot of money to be beautiful - you just need to have good facial features and a nice body.

My husband? I don't even know what you are talking about...

And I'm an actress - so I understand "beauty." My point is that the look that you seem to prefer is not the look that most people seem to prefer.

And the celebrities you listed - not ALL men drool over ALL of them. That's just a fact of life. I don't think most people would call any of them unattractive - but not every man would consider all of them a "10."
This woman is speaking truth.
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Old 09-08-2015, 03:34 PM
 
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I'm not super attractive, maybe just slightly attractive (gotta be modest here..) and the guys I tend to like to date are pretty good looking, funny, charming, and down to earth. Why? Because I feel like I can offer the same.
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Old 09-08-2015, 04:29 PM
 
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I think it depends on the individual. Of course, her options would be a lot greater. If she is confident in herself (and believe it or not, gorgeous women have insecurity issues) she will date people she is really interested in and attracted to physically, emotionally and other reasons. You see some women marry wealthy men decades older than they are. I have seen women who look like they could be models with men who look average. Keep in mind that everyone ages and it is important to marry someone not just based on their looks. Physical attraction is important. Equally important is finding someone who you really connect with on a deeper level and get along with, having common interests, both willing to work to make the relationship work while respecting one another.

"Beauty fades, dumb lasts forever."
Judge Judy
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Old 09-10-2015, 04:51 PM
 
Location: Centro Tejas
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They go out with men who are also 9s and 10s who are known as super attractive by almost all men and women?
Yes, I must be with an equally attractive man. That's why I got such a handsome son!


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Do they get approached all the time? We already know that they get tons of messages everyday in the match profiles.
OMFSM yes!!! I even get approached when I'm with...MY SON!
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