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Nobody was meant to be alone forever. However we have shifted into a polygamous society. Women are sharing a shrinking pool of men they approve of wich means more and more men are alone and will stay alone. The only way to reverse this is taking steps that would be considered too extreme. For example I would favor sterilizing (or even castrating) baby daddies who got more than one woman pregnant. This way if a woman wants a child she won't be able to choose the stud that got multiple women pregnant. She will have to pick a guy who was overlooked, many who will end up being better father material than her first selection. Also deep cuts in the welfare state would help these lonely men, in particular if we cut programs for single moms with children. Feel free to disagree but no personal insults as per the rules.
This is hilarious and deserves to be repeated. That's one way for the awkward dudes to get some--legislate pity sex for them!
Nobody was meant to be alone forever. However we have shifted into a polygamous society. Women are sharing a shrinking pool of men they approve of wich means more and more men are alone and will stay alone. The only way to reverse this is taking steps that would be considered too extreme. For example I would favor sterilizing (or even castrating) baby daddies who got more than one woman pregnant. This way if a woman wants a child she won't be able to choose the stud that got multiple women pregnant. She will have to pick a guy who was overlooked, many who will end up being better father material than her first selection. Also deep cuts in the welfare state would help these lonely men, in particular if we cut programs for single moms with children. Feel free to disagree but no personal insults as per the rules.
I'm pretty much in the same situation, except I'm a girl. Just not very attractive. I saw a quote that basically said if I wanted to be with someone, it was easy- I'd just have to find someone uglier than myself. Unfortunately, I just can't like someone I'm not attracted to. And I'm pretty sure most ugly ppl aren't attracted to me either.
I think my problem is that I'm picky- I don't want a lazy overweight soft person, I want someone who works, who has hobbies, blah blah blah.
Also, the only ppl who approach me are either gross old men, or drunk old men. And old ladies are like "oooh you're so beautiful" but nobody from my generation.
commit to being nothing less than your best self. dedicated yourself to becoming an attractive creation unlike anybody else. morning, noon, and night. make it your life's mission to bring out the most love and beauty within you.
It really makes me wonder that God is punishing many of us with Loneliness, especially when many of us men just can't meet a decent woman anymore to settle down with. And since many women Aren't friendly at all these days, trying to meet one that isn't so very rude when you try to start a conversation with the one that we are attracted to really makes it difficult for us since many women today are certainly Nothing like the real ladies that we had years ago.
At 25, I've accepted I'll be alone forever. I don't hate women. I respect women and think they're gorgeous I just don't have anything to offer a woman.
At 25, I've accepted I'll be alone forever. I don't hate women. I respect women and think they're gorgeous I just don't have anything to offer a woman.
I think that is a very mature and self-aware decision. I hope you end up having some close women friends at least.
It really makes me wonder that God is punishing many of us with Loneliness, especially when many of us men just can't meet a decent woman anymore to settle down with. And since many women Aren't friendly at all these days, trying to meet one that isn't so very rude when you try to start a conversation with the one that we are attracted to really makes it difficult for us since many women today are certainly Nothing like the real ladies that we had years ago.
I am a woman who could write the same post, but switch genders.
". . . Many of us women just can't meet a decent man . . . "
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