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I'm sorry to break it to you, since you are obviously desperate to believe this, but if you read the OP carefully you will see that this thread is connected to other threads. And if you read this thread, you will discover that I think women should put out just as much effort, and do just as much learning, as men.
But I expect you will find it more fun to cling to your women-hating ways. Way more fun than having awesome sex with women who know you adore them.
Sorry to bust your preconceived bubble... But I LOVE women.
I've got a GREAT girlfriend I'll be Headding towards on Tuesday or Wednesday who yes... Is awesome in bed.
(so look for a lot less of me around here... I'm just killing time until I can leave)
That said... I'm tired of the man-bashing here. (not picking on any single poster... I rarely bother to keep track of who said what) I think I'll meander elsewhere before I tell some of these bitter women what I think....
(again, not necessarily directed at you as I haven't kept track of your opinions)
I do want to point out though that bringing a woman to climax is much more dependent on the "skills" a man has
I think it's even more dependent on the skills (awareness of her body and sexuality) the woman has. If she can't bring herself to climax on her own, it's not likely to happen with a man, regardless of his skills.
I also think there is a fine line between being unwilling to adapt and just being incompatible. Yes - I want to enjoy sex with my partner. But if my partner has to sacrifice what feels good to him so that I can have what feels good to me- maybe we just aren't compatible. Yes - I'm going to talk about kissing again. Different people have different styles - and different people enjoy different things. Some people like no tongue. Some people like lots of tongue. If a lots of tongue person and a no tongue person get together - one of them is not going to be as happy. That's just the way the cookie crumbles.
I think it's even more dependent on the skills (awareness of her body and sexuality) the woman has. If she can't bring herself to climax on her own, it's not likely to happen with a man, regardless of his skills.
I would agree with that. I mean - it the guy doesn't even try - he just gets his rocks off as soon as he can and then he's done - well, that's on the guy. But if a woman doesn't know how to make it happen - most likely, it's not going to happen.
Really, all good sex requires is knowledge of human anatomy, an awareness of where every part of your own body is at all times, the ability to read cues, a sense of timing, and dedication to follow-through. In that respect, it's kind of like martial arts, so go take karate, boys.
Really, all good sex requires is knowledge of human anatomy, an awareness of where every part of your own body is at all times, the ability to read cues, a sense of timing, and dedication to follow-through. In that respect, it's kind of like martial arts, so go take karate, boys.
By this description, I was thinking it was more like driving. lol
Really, all good sex requires is knowledge of human anatomy, an awareness of where every part of your own body is at all times, the ability to read cues, a sense of timing, and dedication to follow-through. In that respect, it's kind of like martial arts, so go take karate, boys.
Sounds like a circular conundrum...men who get sex gain experiece and become better in bed, leading to a virtuous circle of more and improved sex...while men who don't get sex don't gain experience and therefore suck in bed leading to a vicious circle of ineptitude and deprivation.
Really, all good sex requires is knowledge of human anatomy, an awareness of where every part of your own body is at all times, the ability to read cues, a sense of timing, and dedication to follow-through. In that respect, it's kind of like martial arts, so go take karate, boys.
Great suggestion!
I love how the skills that make for good sex can be found in so many other areas of life.
Sometimes, to our great dismay, articulation will fail us.
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Wax on, wax off...
