Husband looking at naked women in our bed while I'm asleep

[11thHour]

Originally Posted by asteri

Probably not looking for a response, but the reason it's bothering me now, is that he did it in our bed, while I was sleeping right next to him.

Not while I was out getting groceries, or at work, or out of town. Right next to me while I was sleeping. It's about crossing a line.

So you'd rather he hide it then?

[CSD610]

Originally Posted by asteri

He could have had a real woman in bed while I was sleeping? Sure, that makes a lot of sense.

Makes about as much sense as you being upset he was looking at porn while you were asleep huh?

[Knox Harrington]

I like how several posters are throwing around terms like "addiction" without having ever met the man and probably with no education in the field.

With that said...

Wow, I could never be married to someone like you.

I'm not saying you did anything wrong, I'm just saying you're not for me.

I watch porn and my wife doesn't care. She also watches it from time to time.

We have a great marriage and are secure enough with ourselves and our relationship that something as silly as looking at naked women would never create any friction. We often talk about who has "nice boobs, a great body, etc." Men and women. No big deal.

[MJ7]

both are to blame, he wouldnt need to look at porn if he had the communication (as you say is your problem) that you wanted some sex. figure out the sex life, you both have work to do...1, 2, 3 go