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Old 11-25-2013, 12:39 PM
 
Location: RI, MA, VT, WI, IL, CA, IN (that one sucked), KY
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Non-married people in relationships have more sex than married people. People without bf/gf who rely on hook-ups and dating for sex have way less sex than married people.

But who are the married people having sex with? Now that is the real question... I swear that a lot of the married people in my office have more sex with people other than their spouses than most single people here do.
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Old 11-25-2013, 12:39 PM
 
Location: Europe
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I am married. Luckily for me she remains in as good or even better shape than when we met, and vice versa. I just can't imagine what it is like when one or both let themselves go to the tune of 50 or more pounds or don't get hips or knee's replaced if they need it. Etc.

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I am married also, luckily my passion does not depend of his looks but his love toward me. Therefore if he does not let him go out of a door he could never ever be undesired in my eyes, as long as he is romantic.

Sorry for people who only can feel fleshbul hornyness of craving a body but never flesh of love and connection of souls.
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Old 11-25-2013, 12:43 PM
 
Location: RI, MA, VT, WI, IL, CA, IN (that one sucked), KY
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I am married also, luckily my passion does not depend of his looks but his love toward me. Therefore if he does not let him go out of a door he could never ever be undesired in my eyes, as long as he is romantic.

Sorry for people who only can feel fleshbul hornyness of craving a body but never flesh of love and connection of souls.

You are offering a false dichotomy.
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Old 11-25-2013, 12:44 PM
 
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Normal is whatever frequency which satisfies your libidio. (This can vary greatly from person to person too, so there is no numerical value which can be given).
Plus, it is very common for libidos to be different. IE, one person has a high drive, his partner has a low drive. So one person may be satisfied while the other never is.
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Old 11-25-2013, 12:45 PM
 
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Wait! With their spouse?

I'm ki-dding.
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Old 11-25-2013, 02:34 PM
 
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~5 days/ week

Sometimes 1x/day
Sometimes 4.
It varries.
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Old 12-02-2013, 10:29 AM
 
Location: Maryland
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Thank you all for the replies. I know it is superficial of me to ask because everyone is different. I just wanted to see what my sex life was compared to others. I know we have our issues ( I am ALWAYS in the mood, he is not) and the non-sex thing is starting to cause insecurity issues with me.
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Old 12-02-2013, 10:31 AM
 
Location: Up above the world so high!
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Thank you all for the replies. I know it is superficial of me to ask because everyone is different. I just wanted to see what my sex life was compared to others. I know we have our issues ( I am ALWAYS in the mood, he is not) and the non-sex thing is starting to cause insecurity issues with me.
No matter his age it would be smart to be sure he has a yearly physical with his doctor.

You want to rule out any medical problems that could be affecting his libido or testosterone levels
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Old 12-02-2013, 12:04 PM
 
Location: Copenhagen, Denmark
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Normal? You want to have a normal sex life? You poor S _ B.

How about aiming a bit higher?
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Old 12-02-2013, 12:38 PM
 
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Thank you all for the replies. I know it is superficial of me to ask because everyone is different. I just wanted to see what my sex life was compared to others. I know we have our issues ( I am ALWAYS in the mood, he is not) and the non-sex thing is starting to cause insecurity issues with me.
IME, This is kind of rare-ish.... kinda.

How often do you instigate intimacy?
Do you require him to make the first move ?
Is he healthy as a horse? Stressed ?

If you are truley ALWAYS ready, then you may need to understand that although guys have a stereotype of ALWAYS being ready, not every guy is ready every second of every day.
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