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Older women in my experience are more likely to do whatever the hell they want, with less concern about what others think. That means they're more likely to have casual sex if they want to, but less likely to have it if they don't want to. This, of course, is a much more emotionally healthy approach, and makes them more enjoyable to be with, in my opinion.
You really need to give your theoretical head a reality check.
No matter what age chronologically there are women who do NOT want to latch on to whoever guy she is with, who do NOT just want to hook up, who do NOT HAVE to get married to have a child.
Then there are those women who emotionally cannot handle hook ups no matter what their chronological age.
There is no blanket statement, age, or timeline that dictates what each individual woman wants.
Their choices and maturity level are as individual as snowflakes and just because things may start out one way does not mean they will continue to be that way long term.
I'm pretty sure he is aware of this, as are the rest of us. That's why he used terms like "some", "seem to", and "more likely to" rather than blanket statements like "all ______ are _____." Nobody is overgeneralizing here, for once in the history of this forum.
I think his head appears to be on pretty straight, actually, particularly by the standard of young men around here.
Also, is it not possible that Match.com girls may be interested in casual sex, but are just too shy to admit it, or it has never been formally and respectfully asked of them?
Well, here is something to think over:
Some months back, the founder of Plenty of Fish, a UK-based dating site, estimated that of the 3 million or so users who visited the site daily, only about 3000 were women looking for casual sex. According to him, the vast majority of ads purportedly posted by women seeking casual sex were actually posted by men pretending to be women.
While this doesn't definitively prove anything, it does suggest that while the number men interested in casual sex is clearly huge, the number of women interested is probably significantly smaller.
There seems to be a few topics here relating to hooking up and casual sex. I had previously asked if Match.com would be a good place to score casual sex as it seems like an untapped market for that sort of thing (most people interested in casual sex seem to flock to POF and OKC).
But while searching on Match, I noticed one thing; older women rather than younger women dominate Match.
In my area, the number of girls age 25-30 outnumber the girls who are 18-25 about 10 to 1.
That got me thinking, which age do you think can handle casual sex better? I personally feel like older women (above 25) may be wiser and more emotionally able to have casual sex without any complicated emotions cloud their thoughts and judgment.
I feel like the younger a girl is, the more inexperience she'll have and the harder she'll fall for a guy and demand commitment.
Then again, some older women may be in a hurry to marry and have children sooner rather than later.
I don't think "better at handling casual sex" has anything to do with age, it depends on the woman's general attitude toward casual sex.
I am still in my 20s. I have never had one night stand. (not like having one night stand is morally wrong.) ONS is just not my thing. I got crazy attached to the men I slept with emotionally, so I better just stick with one man. But that is just me. I don't think my general attitude toward casual sex will change. If a woman can separate sex from love, go for it, younger older, who really cares?
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