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Old 12-12-2013, 12:42 PM
 
Location: State of Transition
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you cant make a hoe into a housewife;
And yet, they want her to be a hoe when in bed with them. Not with anyone else, though, just with them. Because if she's not a hoe in bed with them, then she's a prude or frigid. And yet, women who want sex daily are "sex addicted".

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Old 12-12-2013, 12:50 PM
 
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We see this over and over, here, but where does it come from? The internet is full of accurate information, in addition to all the inaccurate stuff.

Why are so many young men unable to discern the difference? Why are they unable to absorb and process the info they get in this forum from real women, for example?

I started to type up a list of examples, but I'm sure you all know the stuff I'm referring to .

What makes the truth so difficult?
Hey, I admit, I get some weird Ideas about women's sexuality.
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Old 12-12-2013, 12:50 PM
 
Location: Terra
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you cant make a hoe into a housewife
This one IS true though.
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Old 12-12-2013, 12:52 PM
 
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Their minds are thoroughly saturated with pornography I would guess.
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Old 12-12-2013, 01:09 PM
 
Location: In the bee-loud glade
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I can't speak for NilaJones, but I suspect she's referring to the oft repeated claims that all women want status, height, supreme confidence, etc. Not that those things aren't considered pretty OK by many woman, but the tone is that any deviation from a rigid standard, held by all women, renders a man defective. Hopelessly.

As hard as it sometimes is for a shy, short, modestly ambitious man to connect with women, it still happens for men who try and who are open to women whose own social/romantic resumes have a few gaps.
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Old 12-12-2013, 01:35 PM
 
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This one IS true though.
Thirded.
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Old 12-12-2013, 01:41 PM
 
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Porn makes the truth difficult
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Old 12-12-2013, 01:41 PM
 
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huh? Just come out and say what youre talking about exactly why so vague?
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Old 12-12-2013, 03:26 PM
 
Location: California
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Why do so many young men have such strange ideas about women's sexuality?

1. They are young. (I'm assuming you are talking early 20's.)
2. They are men and not women.

Just as men in this age bracket are still learning how to be grown men, they are still learning about women. They learn two ways, by what they are told and what they see. And its probably 20% for the former and 80% for the latter. There is an underlying reality that gets missed on a lot of these threads. There is often a large gap between what men and women say regarding relationships and what they actually accept and respond to. So 15 threads about why men don't do this or women do that gets nowhere.
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Old 12-12-2013, 03:44 PM
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We see this over and over, here, but where does it come from? The internet is full of accurate information, in addition to all the inaccurate stuff.

Why are so many young men unable to discern the difference? Why are they unable to absorb and process the info they get in this forum from real women, for example?

I started to type up a list of examples, but I'm sure you all know the stuff I'm referring to .

What makes the truth so difficult?
yo, porn, yo...

as with most guys, the first time i encountered sex, it was through porn.

and porn is pretty messed up.

and, they encounter porn at like 13.

you really think they're trying to 'discern a woman's sexuality'?

they just want to see boobs.
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