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I wonder if there are women who may think porn has to do something with her husband’s normal healthy sexual appetite compared to her near to zero sexual appetite which is nothing shocking really to see married couples where the wife simply doesn’t want to have sex anymore and the husband no matter what is at fault.
Because Feminism and Liberalism have created gender confusion and young men don't even know how to embrace their own sexuality let alone understand female sexuality.
There is a list of reasons of why this type of gender confusion exists today but two of the biggest culprits IMO are feminist shaming of both masculinity and femininity, and children raised in single parent households thanks to certain people destroying families for such valid reasons as "Im just not happy anymore" or "I need to find myself". People like that ought to be beaten with a shoe, rather than find themselves on a receiving end of wealth redistribution in this society. Truly disgusting.
As for young men going through endless adolescent stage or whatever other nonsense anyone chooses to call it, they aren't. They are simply checking out of the marriage scam and the dating game, because they cannot win. In any way and in any scenario. I consider this a natural recalibration of gender relations, and it will take a long time for it to complete. As a result, less and less men will be available to women and for marriage purposes. There isn't anything anyone can do about it.
That cant be it. I live on the buckle of the belt and I agree with what you said.
I always wanted a big belt buckle.
I purchased some boots not long ago, perhaps a big belt buckle would be a good idea.
But there's so many, which one to buy ?
And then I'd have to tuck in my shirt..... I'm not sure I like that look.
decisions decisions.... untucked shirt, or tucked in shirt with bull-face-exhaling nickel plated belt buckle.
Strange ideas about the opposite sex go both ways regardless of women not admitting that. A common women belief is to think men want sex every day all day. But have a guy say “No” to sex and these women get a heart attack and make up all these things in their mind when it was just a day he was not feeling like it, as simple as that.
No, that's not quite it. A common belief among women is that men ACT LIKE they want sex every day all day but when you call their bluff they don't or cant ante up.
Well, help me out then. What are all these great new shiny gender roles feminism has so graciously bequeathed on us lowly males? Bear in mind that most women still insist on marrying up, so that when children come along, she has the option to leave the workplace without a significant downgrade in lifestyle. Is it the bumbling idiot constantly needing to be rescued by his benevolent wife that is rubric on TV? Perhaps the lazy oaf with his hand down his pants? Is it the disposable p*nis a la sex and the city? Please do enlighten me on all the great male gender red I have to aspire to, and the awesome males who model them for me. As for males being able to freely express their sexuality, that's been all but criminalized, lest someone be made uncomfortable.
I always wanted a big belt buckle.
I purchased some boots not long ago, perhaps a big belt buckle would be a good idea.
But there's so many, which one to buy ?
And then I'd have to tuck in my shirt..... I'm not sure I like that look.
decisions decisions.... untucked shirt, or tucked in shirt with bull-face-exhaling nickel plated belt buckle.
Honey, first of all you have to earn your big belt buckle to be the real deal.
Just my little ol' opinion, un-tucked shirt, lose the belt.
No, that's not quite it. A common belief among women is that men ACT LIKE they want sex every day all day but when you call their bluff they don't or cant ante up.
Actually, a common belief presented in chick flicks, sitcoms, talk shows, celebrity gossip, and other things women enjoy viewing/listening portray men as insatiable sexual creatures that want sex every single day all day. Just see what happens when a woman gets a “no” for sex. It’s the end of the world and we have seen it here in the forum quite often. Those expectations are as bad as what some guys out there expect from women after seeing porn of course. Then again, doesn’t porn simply show women who want sex and are into it? Unless we’re talking about some not-as-common fetish out there. Expectations go both ways.
Honey, first of all you have to earn your big belt buckle to be the real deal.
Just my little ol' opinion, un-tucked shirt, lose the belt.
How do I earn a belt buckle? Bull ride? Climb a mountain ? Gold mining ?
Belts are typically required regardless of tucked or untucked, unless you are gangster and your jeans sag below your butt. I'm not gangster, so a belt is pretty much like wearing socks.
Actually, a common belief presented in chick flicks, sitcoms, talk shows, celebrity gossip, and other things women enjoy viewing/listening portray men as insatiable sexual creatures that want sex every single day all day. Just see what happens when a woman gets a “no” for sex. It’s the end of the world and we have seen it here in the forum quite often. Those expectations are as bad as what some guys out there expect from women after seeing porn of course. Then again, doesn’t porn simply show women who want sex and are into it? Unless we’re talking about some not-as-common fetish out there. Expectations go both ways.
I know the difference between reality and TV.
I cant say I have ever been present and privy to a dialogue in which a man refuses a request for sex from a woman, have you?
There is a list of reasons of why this type of gender confusion exists today but two of the biggest culprits IMO are feminist shaming of both masculinity and femininity, and children raised in single parent households thanks to certain people destroying families for such valid reasons as "Im just not happy anymore" or "I need to find myself". People like that ought to be beaten with a shoe, rather than find themselves on a receiving end of wealth redistribution in this society. Truly disgusting.
As for young men going through endless adolescent stage or whatever other nonsense anyone chooses to call it, they aren't. They are simply checking out of the marriage scam and the dating game, because they cannot win. In any way and in any scenario. I consider this a natural recalibration of gender relations, and it will take a long time for it to complete. As a result, less and less men will be available to women and for marriage purposes. There isn't anything anyone can do about it.
I think the "endless adolescent stage" is real. And it's not just young men (it's young women too). And it's not just about marriage... it's about other things as well.
Social scientists are starting to realize that a permanent shift has taken place in the way we live our lives. In the past, people moved from childhood to adolescence and from adolescence to adulthood, but today there is a new, intermediate phase along the way. The years from 18 until 25 and even beyond have become a distinct and separate life stage, a strange, transitional never-never land between adolescence and adulthood in which people stall for a few extra years, putting off the iron cage of adult responsibility that constantly threatens to crash down on them.
To be fair, it's not really a "Bad" thing. I agree with this assement.
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Jeffrey Arnett, a developmental psychologist at the University of Maryland, favors "emerging adulthood" to describe this new demographic group...His theme is that the twixters are misunderstood. It's too easy to write them off as overgrown children, he argues. Rather, he suggests, they're doing important work to get themselves ready for adulthood....In his view, what looks like incessant, hedonistic play is the twixters' way of trying on jobs and partners and personalities and making sure that when they do settle down, they do it the right way, their way. It's not that they don't take adulthood seriously; they take it so seriously, they're spending years carefully choosing the right path into it.
On relationships the article mentions this:
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Marrying late also means that twixters tend to have more sexual partners than previous generations. The situation is analogous to their promiscuous job-hopping behavior... but it can give them a cynical, promiscuous vibe too. Arnett is worried that if anything, twixters are too romantic. In their universe, romance is totally detached from pragmatic concerns and societal pressures, so when twixters finally do marry, they're going to do it for Love with a capital L and no other reason. "Everybody wants to find their soul mate now," Arnett says, "whereas I think, for my parents' generation — I'm 47 — they looked at it much more practically. I think a lot of people are going to end up being disappointed with the person that's snoring next to them by the time they've been married for a few years and they realize it doesn't work that way."
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