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because you guys make stuff up...like assuming i don't have a car, she's looking for a relationship, i'm not ready ect....
I meant because you came here acting like you're unsure if she'll have sex with you if you got a hotel room, yet when people say it may not happen, you argue that you are sure she wants sex. Let's regroup. Why are you here then?
An acquaintance I know from HS is coming home for Christmas and I'm 99% sure she wants to have sex. I live with my parents and I really don't want to try anything there. I'm thinking about a dinner date and then heading to a hotel to drink some wine.
How do I bring it up to her? I'm very socially awkward and I don't want to blow it.
"let's go drink some wine" or something along the lines of that..? the less I say the better, right?
I don't want to make her feel like a smelly pirate hooker, but at the same time I want to make it clear that I'm down for fun.
So you are a 23 year old that lives with his mom still.
lol at some of the replies. Of course he is going to lack knowledge and skills in the department he just said he is a virgin.
Everyone has to start somwhere. Don't let this chance go OP.
Forget the hotel, bad Idea. Nothing at all wrong with your car, at your stage. Take her somewhere secluded or a noted makeout spot and bingo.
I never gave any details but she jokingly told me she wanted to take advantage of me and then sent me a topless picture. So I'll give you 100%.
I once made out with a girl in my bed (back in college) for 2 hrs. She grabbed my hand and pressed it against her chest and I was still too dumb/nervous to take it further. Trust me..I find ways to botch things up.
yes i'm a virgin
Be prepared. Don't necessarily get a room, but know where you can. Then, on the evening of your outing, dinner is a good idea. But if your mind is focused on getting her to the hotel, you will come across as a jerky tool, and worse, no fun. Enjoy the time you are spending with her. If the sex comes later, consider that an excellent dessert course and don't worry about it. Be attentive to HER enjoyment.
I don't really agree with the posters who say there is something wrong with you with regards to maturity. Not every sexual experience is the culmination of Twu Nub. Sometimes it is an awesome fun culmination of an awesome fun evening. But you DO need to have the awesome fun evening first to light both of your fires and generate the feelings of both comfort and mutual excitement.
Go out with her. Bring condoms. Be aware of nearby hotels and rates, availability, etc. Then, see where the evening takes you.
You're right. You overthink things.
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