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Old 12-14-2013, 10:44 PM
 
Location: Seattle
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An acquaintance I know from HS is coming home for Christmas and I'm 99% sure she wants to have sex. I live with my parents and I really don't want to try anything there. I'm thinking about a dinner date and then heading to a hotel to drink some wine.

How do I bring it up to her? I'm very socially awkward and I don't want to blow it.

"let's go drink some wine" or something along the lines of that..? the less I say the better, right?

I don't want to make her feel like a smelly pirate hooker, but at the same time I want to make it clear that I'm down for fun.
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Old 12-14-2013, 10:48 PM
 
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In the ancient days, people just did it in the car.
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Old 12-14-2013, 10:48 PM
 
Location: Up above the world so high!
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As has been previously stated when you posted the same question elsewhere...if you have to ask these kinds of questions you are not ready for the responsibility and potential repercussions of having sex. Concentrate on growing up and making yourself ready.
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Old 12-14-2013, 10:48 PM
 
Location: Davenport, Iowa
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If you're 99% sure she wants to have sex, why not just ask her if she wants to get a hotel room in order to have sex?
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Old 12-14-2013, 10:49 PM
 
Location: Up above the world so high!
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In the ancient days, people just did it in the car.
He doesn't have one of those either I bet.
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Old 12-14-2013, 10:50 PM
 
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He doesn't have one of those either I bet.
lol
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Old 12-14-2013, 10:55 PM
 
Location: Seattle
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He doesn't have one of those either I bet.
Thanks! yes i have a car, but i'd rather do it in a hotel room. car just doesn't sound fun.

I'm socially awkward, not immature. But thanks for your input! I really really appreciate it!
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Old 12-14-2013, 10:56 PM
 
Location: Seattle
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As has been previously stated when you posted the same question elsewhere.
and this is my first post on this topic....
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Old 12-14-2013, 10:56 PM
 
Location: So Cal
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Last thing she heard was "what's' that smell?"


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Old 12-14-2013, 10:58 PM
 
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If you've never met this girl in real life before, you're not going to be able to suggest going a hotel room (with alcohol at that) without making her feel like a smelly hooker. Just sayin...
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