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Old 12-18-2013, 02:13 PM
 
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Not only is there, it's the only way I've ever heard anyone use the term "G-spot."
Interesting. Maybe it's a regional phenom?

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Sigh. Christ, you're literal sometimes.
Heh. That's what I sometimes think about you .

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Not literally ALL humans, but the idea of the G-spot has always been that it is some kind of magical sexual button.
But that's exactly what I said! How can anyone take seriously the idea of a 'magical sexual button'? Why not just ask real women about their real experiences?

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This is a myth, and therefore the G-spot as it is popularly understood is a myth, at least according to most of the articles I found online when I briefly looked it up earlier. Here are just a few.
Yeah, there were a lot of articles/studies like that until people found out what was really going on.

It seems to vary more than most anatomical things, too. Similar to some of the muscles of peoples hands and forearms (random example I remember from school, not related to sex), most women have prostate tissue, but a significant minority don't seem to.

And, of course, like stimulation of any genital sub-area (except mainly the very key ones) people are all over the map between 'love it' and 'does nothing for me'.
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Old 12-18-2013, 03:37 PM
 
Location: Newport Beach, California
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Any woman I'd ever been with that expresses discomfort about me and porn was never because of the porn. It would be because I was masturbating instead of f***ing HER. And I get that. I don't get along well with the kinds of women that would pick a fight over it...but I do understand the frustration there.
Incredibly reasonable post and so very very true.
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Old 12-18-2013, 03:43 PM
 
Location: State of Transition
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I'm surprised there's all this denial about a G-spot. It's there, and when it's stimulated, women know it! I've seen it on medical diagrams of the internal female genitalia, and there are vibrators designed to zero in right on it.
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Old 12-18-2013, 03:51 PM
 
Location: Newport Beach, California
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If there is a G-spot, I am unaware of it. hahaha
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Old 12-18-2013, 03:54 PM
 
Location: State of Transition
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Yeah, there were a lot of articles/studies like that until people found out what was really going on..
It also used to be believed (including by medical so-called "science") that the only valid or "mature" or real orgasm was a vaginal one. You can bet these theories were developed by male researchers, "doctors", psychiatrists, and the like. Thank heaven society has moved on to at least a bit more reality-based perspectives that include women researchers.
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Old 12-18-2013, 04:13 PM
 
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I'm surprised there's all this denial about a G-spot. It's there, and when it's stimulated, women know it! I've seen it on medical diagrams of the internal female genitalia, and there are vibrators designed to zero in right on it.
Of course it exists its just that not everybody finds it pleasurable to be stimulated there as others.
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Old 12-18-2013, 11:23 PM
 
Location: Southern California
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Plenty of men masturbate without porn. Your post almost sounds as though that's impossible, i.e. that men need porn in order to facilitate masturbation.
Yes.

[but it's not as interesting...]
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Old 12-18-2013, 11:33 PM
 
Location: New Zealand and Australia
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Any woman I'd ever been with that expresses discomfort about me and porn was never because of the porn. It would be because I was masturbating instead of f***ing HER. And I get that. I don't get along well with the kinds of women that would pick a fight over it...but I do understand the frustration there.
Yes, but porn can fill the void for when you spend time apart. Or for when have mismatched drives at times.
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Old 12-18-2013, 11:34 PM
 
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I have never had an orgasm by vaginal penetration.

I wonder if I'm alone?

Also,is the g spot the clitoris?

I'm confused;I don't understand where it is,or what it is for that matter.
I've read all about it,but don't it.
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Old 12-18-2013, 11:36 PM
 
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In any event,I believe any man that has to watch porn while he has sex with his wife or girlfriend isn't sstimulated by her.

My sister says her hubby watches porn while they have sex,but I told her I think that's disrespectful
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