Would you wait if your gf made you wait till marriage?

[btuhack]

Dump the GF post haste if she doesn't let you deflower her...tonight, and if you think she's "the one", you're kidding yourself. Stick with her and she'll be telling you what to do and when to do it for the rest of your life. That's no way for a man to live.

Life was meant to be lived, seize the moment!

BTW-If you read your thread in 10 years you'll ask yourself "how could I have been so naive".

[Sydney123]

Well I'd like to at least see it first... Just to make sure it's worth the wait.

[WannaBeNSoCal]

Originally Posted by computerguy1

I would like to know what you think of this. As for me, I've decided to wait because I love my gf.
We've been dating for nearly 6 months and it's also my first relationship (I'm also a virgin and 19 years old). Thing is, we do the other things except intercourse or anal.

I've been lately masturbating more often and sometimes imagine how it would be like if we were doing it. I don't mind if she decides to do it while in the relationship but it's really up to her and I respect her choice. Only thing is we'll be like this for years until finishing college. It turns me on even when we were in the swimming pool and making-out. Or the other time where she got on top of me and we were humping each other with clothes on.

I hope for the best and that this last. I would hate to get suddenly because then it would mean all the waiting and exercising self-restrain would be all for nothing (I mean, I'm willing to sacrifice sex if that's how she wants the relationship to be like for years until our wedding). At the same time, I still get tempted like any guy but managed to control my high sex drive. I guess it's even harder if he's a virgin himself and girl is making him wait that long while doing the other things. I do want to eventually have a child but when I'm older offcourse and done with college.

So does others still practice this?

It doesn't matter what others are doing, **** em. All that matters is what you two want. If you are both okay with waiting and love each other, I see nothing wrong with this. I don't see why she is holding out if you two are doing what you described, but whatever.

I don't view sex as being sacred, but I also don't value relationships. They are fun, but I don't trust anyone enough to do the long term thing. I do give them the illusion for a time, but then that fragile glass world shatters when I dump them. The world is a cruel place. If you find someone you truly love, hold onto her; you are luckier than most. I'll never have that, so if that is what you found, that is awesome.

[reen79]

i never understood this...what if you wait till marriage and you arent sexually compatible? i mean you have only been dating for 6 months.....your only 19 how do you even know you will end up marrying her? in the end its all up to you.....