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Old 03-02-2014, 01:35 PM
 
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How is this urgent when this started happening between the last 7 to 10 months. The issues started 7 freaking months ago. Not sure why this is urgent. Is this "clear evidence" the op's conjecture or not?

At any rate this is not a healthy relationship. Then again, I am guessing it is a made up story. I wish they would all start out with "once upon a time."
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Old 03-02-2014, 01:37 PM
 
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How is this urgent when this started happening between the last 7 to 10 months. The issues started 7 freaking months ago. Not sure why this is urgent. Is this "clear evidence" the op's conjecture or not?

At any rate this is not a healthy relationship. Then again, I am guessing it is a made up story. I wish they would all start out with "once upon a time."
lol.
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Old 03-02-2014, 01:38 PM
 
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Tell him you tried to reach him Friday after 11, and couldn't, and ask him where he was. See if he sounds like he's telling the truth. Take it from there.

This is why men don't trust their SO's on business trips. Because men assume that women will behave the same as they do, when away from home.
Hahahaha
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Old 03-02-2014, 02:09 PM
 
Location: SF Bay Area
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I say let it go. Yes, he met a girl while you were broken up, but he ended it once he solidly got back with you.

If you think he can't be trusted while he is away from you visiting another city, that is another issue though.
I'm with you, srjth, the first is a non-issue.
As for his lie about being home at 1AM, perhaps this Kevin Hart clip can explain:



Kevin Hart: Men Having Fun [seriously funny] - YouTube
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Old 03-02-2014, 03:09 PM
 
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I'm with you, srjth, the first is a non-issue.
As for his lie about being home at 1AM, perhaps this Kevin Hart clip can explain:



Kevin Hart: Men Having Fun [seriously funny] - YouTube

Hahahahaha
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Old 03-02-2014, 03:14 PM
 
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I will talk to him tonight and post his answers here.

Maybe it's the most stupid thought in the world but right now i'm considering to cheat on him once to be even..and maybe it doesn't hurt so much anymore. But i know i shouldnt.
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Old 03-02-2014, 03:16 PM
 
Location: Katonah, NY
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I will talk to him tonight and post his answers here.

Maybe it's the most stupid thought in the world but right now i'm considering to cheat on him once to be even..and maybe it doesn't hurt so much anymore. But i know i shouldnt.
That's a brilliant idea! But I think you should get married first - then cheat on him! You guys have a great relationship!
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Old 03-02-2014, 03:18 PM
 
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I will talk to him tonight and post his answers here.

Maybe it's the most stupid thought in the world but right now i'm considering to cheat on him once to be even..and maybe it doesn't hurt so much anymore. But i know i shouldnt.
It is most definitely the worst thing you can do in this situation. This is equivalent to rolling in mud just to prove to a pig that you too can get dirty. If you have any sort of dignity you'd either have a chat with him, with the goal of working together to get over the "Cheating." OR you end things and move on with your life.
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Old 03-02-2014, 03:19 PM
 
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That's a brilliant idea! But I think you should get married first - then cheat on him! You guys have a great relationship!
lmfao...this is awesome.
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Old 03-02-2014, 03:20 PM
 
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No, at 11pm he told me he is out with some friends. Then i didnt get any response anymore til the morning. Usually he tells me goos night etc. And i found a bill that he withdrawed 100 dollar from the atm at 4am.

Out with friends equals no contact for a while because he is busy with his friends and having fun.
A withdrawal at an ATM at 4am usually means the drunk breakfast for him and his friends and a taxi ride to the hotel.

You snooping in his phone which is none of your business equals his absolute right to dump you and move on.
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