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Just because it hasn't to you doesn't mean it can't happen. I am not taking any risks.
Then you're gonna end up playing it safe all the way into isolation, your own solitary confinement. If that works for you, fine. But I get the feeling it's not working for you too well.
Then you're gonna end up playing it safe all the way into isolation, your own solitary confinement. If that works for you, fine. But I get the feeling it's not working for you too well.
How would you know? You don't know know me well enough to say that.
I tend to avoid most young women that are working supermarket cash registers. I sometimes get a weird vibe from them like some are embarrassed to be seen doing that job...although I think no less of them. I used to push carts. A person is not their job but I can understand why it might feel uncomfortable for some. Nobody likes to be noticed in a job they may not like. So I kind of steer toward the older ones that look married and aren't concerned with what men think of them.
Then you're gonna end up playing it safe all the way into isolation, your own solitary confinement. If that works for you, fine. But I get the feeling it's not working for you too well.
Well, wait a second...don't Buddhist monks choose celibacy and seek out enlightenment by living alone for long stretches of time. Buddhist monks are often pretty wise...are you saying it's not working for them either? By all accounts, they choose that life because it increases their contentment. Maybe there is something to being alone.
Then you're gonna end up playing it safe all the way into isolation, your own solitary confinement. If that works for you, fine. But I get the feeling it's not working for you too well.
To be fair, there are some crazy and insecure guys that would feel completely threatened if another guy so much as started a conversation with their girlfriend (without the guy even knowing she was in a relationship).
So the only reason you would "talk" to a woman is because you want to try to date her?
In other words, you're only interested in women as potential targets for sex and not because they are intrinsically worth knowing for other reasons?
And because you have low self esteem, you only want to attempt to sleep with less attractive ones?
Great life strategy.
Most women when confronted by a gentlemen in public straight away think this way (at least a large majority of them). Just because us men want to chat to you doesn't mean we're always interested in you.
To answer the OP: I tend to talk to whoever it is I want when I want, that includes attractive and unattractive women. You have to learn how to read a woman though. In some instances they are out to get some, often times they are not. Learning how to read these things is an acquired skill that one will gain with experience. You will never learn unless you fail a few times, it's just part of the game, you win some you lose some. But the point of this is you have to try, now get out there and be somebody.
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