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Old 03-24-2014, 06:18 AM
 
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My strategy is to just not talk to women with regards to such matters. Academic and professional stuff yes...but any other matters.....well....
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Old 03-24-2014, 06:34 AM
 
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Some men approach "average/ugly-looking women" because when she rejects him, they can always comfort themselves by saying, "She was ugly anyway."

Op, you should work on your lack of confidence.
hehe, i didnt think dudes still did this

back in the day yes, and it was more vulgar than that
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Old 03-24-2014, 06:37 AM
 
Location: Terra
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Some guys really need to grow a pair.

"Attractive women are mean, boo hoo "

Seriously?
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Old 03-24-2014, 07:25 AM
 
Location: New Zealand and Australia
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I don't avoid talking to anyone. Rich, famous, attractive. None phase me in the least. They/we are all human.
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Old 03-24-2014, 08:43 AM
 
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Most of the guys I know who don't succeed with women don't really try
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Old 03-24-2014, 10:01 AM
 
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Most of the guys I know who don't succeed with women don't really try
I am offended by that spurious and outrageous accusation. I tried my best back in middle school. I mean I emailed her my confession.
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Old 03-24-2014, 11:04 AM
 
Location: Jupiter
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Most of the guys I know who don't succeed with women don't really try
We do try. We get rejected all the time and just say "why bother?" And quit trying.
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Old 03-24-2014, 11:06 AM
 
Location: Jupiter
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Attractive women can also be approachable and sweet. So why avoid all of them, just because some might be mean? Anyone can be mean. It makes no sense to avoid the very women you're attracted to.
Some of them have boyfriends or husbands who will threaten you if you talk to them. I hate drama and a lot of attractive women have that. No thanks.
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Old 03-24-2014, 11:56 AM
 
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A lot of people can be mean, man or woman, attractive or ugly.

Thinking a woman is mean because she is attractive is a great sign of low intelligence. Not much different than a person who is discriminatory towards something like race.
I'd like to say that that is a form of shallowness in and of itself.
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Old 03-24-2014, 12:00 PM
 
Location: Went around the corner & now I'm lost!!!!
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We do try. We get rejected all the time and just say "why bother?" And quit trying.
Then KEEP trying I say...keep trying. So you are saying they verbally told you (more than once) that they were not interested?? You need to look at it from the perspective that that one is not for you then...someone better awaits OR you need to work on yourself in the meantime...on yourself emotionally to get the confidence you need, mentally remove the fear of attractive women, physically work on that stately stance to draw the attention of all women and financially don't be broke looking for a woman.

Let's say you meet that ultimate attractive woman who has her whole life in perfect order, emotionally stable, no to little debt and healthy BUT YOU on the other hand are an emotional train wreck, no self esteem, always sickly and in debt. Now how long do you think she is going to be with your sorry ***** .

Now because of you being ill prepared for such a prize, you just messed up! Now there goes an attractive woman disappointed in men who are not really ready for a relationship. Do you see where I'm going with this... you don't give a Mercedes to a reckless teenage boy

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