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Old 03-23-2014, 10:32 AM
 
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I avoid talking to women i dont know in general..i get the how dare you enter my airspace look which makes me feel like ****
Lol. I get that sense too. I remember one time I saw a woman that caught my interests in my zoology class last semester, I decided to introduce myself to her and once I said hi, she gave me the look of a lion. I immediately back off
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Old 03-23-2014, 10:34 AM
 
Location: The Jar
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I don't. I talk to my wife all day every day!
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Old 03-23-2014, 10:37 AM
 
Location: Viña del Mar, Chile
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Lol. I get that sense too. I remember one time I saw a woman that caught my interests in my zoology class last semester, I decided to introduce myself to her and once I said hi, she gave me the look of a lion. I immediately back off
was most likely all in your head. i've never seen a girl react that way
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Old 03-23-2014, 10:44 AM
 
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that's why I'm sometimes scared when someone tries to approach me. I mean I feel like they chose me because they think of me as of an untaken unattractive woman.
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Old 03-23-2014, 10:47 AM
 
Location: a primitive state
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No idiot, relationship wise. I did not say anything about wanting to them for sex.
Thanks. I stand by my observations. Please don't tell your future girlfriend that you're not interested in her sexually. LOL

As a zoology major, don't you see the value of spreading your genes?

You're a mess. Just talk to women and keep an open mind. You young guys are having the worst time of it lately.
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Old 03-23-2014, 10:51 AM
 
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It's a little known fact that attractive women make the high percentage rate of muggers and pick pockets in the world. So, when I see an attractive woman not only will I not talk to her but I guard my belongs and attempt to hide.
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Old 03-23-2014, 11:58 AM
 
Location: Went around the corner & now I'm lost!!!!
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Lol. I get that sense too. I remember one time I saw a woman that caught my interests in my zoology class last semester, I decided to introduce myself to her and once I said hi, she gave me the look of a lion. I immediately back off
LOL, I think the stare of a lion is beholding... looks can be misinterpreted. Some women are so busy that they never really focus on you but only for a brief conversation...just going on with their lives. Don't just try to "catch" their attention but grab and hold their attention long enough to make them stop moving to the next agenda they have planned.

Start a simple conversation and don't forget to get to the most important questions like are you in a relationship...have children... etc. There are ways of doing this in a noninvasive way. It is just a screening tool for you know if you want to go any further. Don't be afraid to let them know you would like to take them out. How would they know that you are interested if you don't make it known . She will either say yes or no...no harm done.

But if you are REALLY interested persist a little harder...but not to hard...at giving her your phone number. You could always tell her again that you are intrigued by her and would like to get to know her...who she is. Let her know you really want her to take your number with the option of calling you or not. And write it on a nice size piece of paper so she won't have an excuse of losing it. At that point the ball is in her court; she will either throw it away or keep it...again no harm done. If you see her again hold another conversation with her but longer this time. She will begin to get familiar with you and focus on you more. You'll be in the door in no time.

During the date, pay attention to everything that is said and done. Remember that during this phase everybody is putting forth their best face forward so read the little nuances...it will be the little things that will reveal the most. After several dates her mouth will run like a river and all will be told but continue to pay attention. Now the crazy ones know how to clam up until you are deep into them and their real personality will raise its little hellish head and blame it on their cycle or whatever. So I stress PAY ATTENTION.

Once you are really interested get on the internet and start binging and googling your butt off for a more advance screening. Once your satisfied with what you found that ball is now in YOUR court....LOL.

Hope this helps

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Old 03-23-2014, 12:43 PM
 
Location: Buenos Aires
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Some men approach "average/ugly-looking women" because when she rejects him, they can always comfort themselves by saying, "She was ugly anyway."

Op, you should work on your lack of confidence.
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Old 03-23-2014, 12:49 PM
 
Location: State of Transition
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Each time I see an attractive woman, I do not make an attempt to talk to her. In the past most attractive women that I tried to talk to are usually taken. I kinda feel like you have to be on your A game to get a pretty woman to like you. Sometimes I notice some women will lie about be taken to you because she is not feeling you when you approach her.
So? Let her lie. She's under no obligation to go out with you. How many women who have started to chat you up have you walked away from because they weren't your type?
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Old 03-23-2014, 12:49 PM
 
Location: Went around the corner & now I'm lost!!!!
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Some men approach "average/ugly-looking women" because when she rejects him, they can always comfort themselves by saying, "She was ugly anyway."

Op, you should work on your lack of confidence.
LOL.....LOL.....LOL....ROFL...Rep
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