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Old 06-04-2014, 04:14 PM
 
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Why are you trying to come up with reasons why not? If you really wanted to marry her you'd be too busy being happy and excited to question us.

The question is why are you hesitating in the first place? Is it something about her? You don't feel ready? Marriage itself makes you nervous? What gives?
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Old 06-04-2014, 04:15 PM
 
Location: somewhere in the Midwest
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The funny thing is that the OP asks if he should marry someone who will have a child from him, but people on this forum criticize me because I don't want to marry someone who has a large family of kids that are not mine!
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Old 06-04-2014, 04:21 PM
 
Location: SacTown
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Get a paternity test before you decide anything.
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Old 06-04-2014, 04:24 PM
 
Location: cali
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- Do you love her?
- Do you see yourself with her for another 30-40 years?
- Will she make a good mother?
- Will she make a good wife?
- Will you make a good father?
- can you and her financially support a kid?

- IF she had not been pregnant, would you marry her? when?
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Old 06-04-2014, 04:28 PM
 
Location: In a place beyond human comprehension
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If you have to ask whether or not you should marry her or not....9 times out of 10, you probably shouldn't.

Do you even love this girl?
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Old 06-04-2014, 04:34 PM
 
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You sound like a romantic...
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Old 06-04-2014, 04:40 PM
 
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Title says it all. We've been together for a couple of years and our relationships is pretty good. Should I marry her, I Can't come up with any reason why not.
are you serious? you are coming to an internet forum, asking complete strangers this question?
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Old 06-04-2014, 04:55 PM
 
Location: cali
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are you serious? you are coming to an internet forum, asking complete strangers this question?

Since you asked us (complete strangers) if you should marry her; I think you should invite those of us that said yes you should marry her to your wedding
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Old 06-04-2014, 05:20 PM
 
Location: Chicago
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Title says it all. We've been together for a couple of years and our relationships is pretty good. Should I marry her, I Can't come up with any reason why not.
It is flat out impossible for anyone else to make this decision for you.
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Old 06-04-2014, 05:27 PM
 
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