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First when I arrived, she was like " it is so nice to finally meet you". I was like "she must like what she sees". Then while we conversed at the table she was smiling and asking questions about what I like and then we hugged at the end. She told me to text her when I got home and I sent a text on friday, and called and left a message last night
No response to text
No return call yet.
She should be in the movies because that was some wonderful acting. Lol
she is testing you my friend. she might just be interested in you, but she wants to see how pliable you are, or how desperate you are. relax and wait to see if she responds. if she doesnt respond with in 3-4 days, send her another text asking if she wants to go out again when she is free. if she responds to that, you are in, if she doesnt, move on.
You know, it could be she really enjoyed the date and liked you as a person, but not in a more romantic way (so to speak). Not your fault or anything like that--from the sounds of it, you were a "good date." Or it could be that she got horrible food poisoning after the date and is still weak and recovering (hey, trying to find an upside for you... although I guess that wouldn't be an upside for her).
Again, sorry... but glad you had a good time while it lasted.
she is testing you my friend. she might just be interested in you, but she wants to see how pliable you are, or how desperate you are. relax and wait to see if she responds. if she doesnt respond with in 3-4 days, send her another text asking if she wants to go out again when she is free. if she responds to that, you are in, if she doesnt, move on.
If she's playing games he needs to kick her to the curb. I hate women that play games, or tries to make a man "chase" her. He already did his part, He text and he called. If she hasn't responded yet, move on.
she is testing you my friend. she might just be interested in you, but she wants to see how pliable you are, or how desperate you are. relax and wait to see if she responds. if she doesnt respond with in 3-4 days, send her another text asking if she wants to go out again when she is free. if she responds to that, you are in, if she doesnt, move on.
You have a good point, it can't hurt to send another text message in 3-4 days (can only make things better at this point), but that all smacks of game playing on her part if that's the case. Not sure how the OP feels about game playing (I can't stand it personally), but it's something he should consider.
It's possible to have a pleasant time with someone, but not be interested in seeing them again. Though I think she should have responded to your text or call and told you so, it was only one date.
I am not trying to make excuses (well maybe I am a little), but it's hard when someone puts you on the spot at the end of the date to flat out tell them you don't want to see them again. I'm sure a lot of people are guilty of brushing someone off later because it was awkward to do it in person.
First when I arrived, she was like " it is so nice to finally meet you". I was like "she must like what she sees". Then while we conversed at the table she was smiling and asking questions about what I like and then we hugged at the end. She told me to text her when I got home and I sent a text on friday, and called and left a message last night
No response to text
No return call yet.
She should be in the movies because that was some wonderful acting. Lol
She might not have been faking or lying, she might have had a very nice time but just didn't want to date again.
I find it pretty lame for her to be like that, but it is what it is. Happens to everyone.
First when I arrived, she was like " it is so nice to finally meet you". I was like "she must like what she sees". Then while we conversed at the table she was smiling and asking questions about what I like and then we hugged at the end. She told me to text her when I got home and I sent a text on friday, and called and left a message last night
No response to text
No return call yet.
She should be in the movies because that was some wonderful acting. Lol
So where did you end up sitting in relation to her?
If you called last night and she's at work, she may not have had a chance to call yet. You've called and you've texted. If you don't hear anything back, then move on.
NOTHING is worse that the smell of desperation. You've done right so far but now it's up to her. Don't take it personally, you have no idea what else she has going on in her life.
IMO this was a positive experience, a nice night out with someone new. That's all it has to be, no need to beat it to death and turn it into something negative. Strive for more of this!
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I hope you have better luck next time. 