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How so? I do not think she was shallow OR inconsiderate.... quite the opposite.
What could she have done better about the situation?
You don't leave it up in the air of why things didn't continue.
Ex:Hey Sol just to let you know you are a great guy but my life got hective so I can't date you right now.
Or
Ex:Hey I'm sorry I found someone more suitable for me, I wish you luck. (Yes got this)
Text/Call once, if no response try again a couple days later.. still nothing? Move on.
Even if they contact me a week or two after I decided to move on I usually ignore them.
I'm deal with people all day at work, it's not that hard to respond to stuff. I just brush it off and go find someone who digs me.
I would never call someone again after already leaving a message
Why don't you? You don't have to offer to buy anything and most girls don't want to feel obligated anyway, despite what you think about them "using" you for drinks or dinner. And spending time with someone that doesn't lead to a relationship isn't a waste of time. The more people you know the bigger your social network gets and THAT is how you find people. You don't just order up a woman online, wham bam...haha. Your expectations about this are all wrong and you will fail.
Knowing what little I know from this thread I doubt very much you will find someone who meets your requirements for guaranteed relationship status.
Good luck to you though.
I always hear women say if a guy doesn't pay on the 1st date they are not interested
You don't leave it up in the air of why things didn't continue.
Ex:Hey Sol just to let you know you are a great guy but my life got hective so I can't date you right now.
Or
Ex:Hey I'm sorry I found someone more suitable for me, I wish you luck. (Yes got this)
I mean the quiet fade off is something we all done at some point lol I just don't like when it happens to me.
And why did she ask to sit outside? She fooled the hell out of me, not going to lie
I know it was only $12 but I just hate treating someone when it's no guarantee I will see them again. 2nd date or 3rd I don't care but I really wish I can go dutch when I meet someone the first time
Well, you're not guaranteed to see anyone again. You never know the last time you will see someone. There are a lot of people here I am kind to that I don't know if I will ever see again. As a matter of fact, that should be even more motivation for you.
If I were to never see a loved one again, I'd want the last time together to be the best possible.
Well, you're not guaranteed to see anyone again. You never know the last time you will see someone. There are a lot of people here I am kind to that I don't know if I will ever see again. As a matter of fact, that should be even more motivation for you.
If I were to never see a loved one again, I'd want the last time together to be the best possible.
I seriously need to create another account labeled........."DATING" lol
I would never call someone again after already leaving a message
I have, some women freak themselves out and need a couple days. It's happened a lot. I don't really care if they think I'm clingy or whatever, I gave it 2 days and they happily reply and go on a second or third date.
I'm one of the most aloof people you'd ever meet to be honest. No matter what happens, I'll be ok.
I mean the quiet fade off is something we all done at some point lol I just don't like when it happens to me.
And why did she ask to sit outside? She fooled the hell out of me, not going to lie
Yeah I did it too.It does suck when it happens to you.
I'm thinking she was genuinely interested in you but decided it was a lot of work or (hate to say it) she found another.
You guys think you are the only one that plays the field?lol
I stopped that crap in my 20's.
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