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Old 06-09-2014, 06:31 PM
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Originally Posted by Raena77 View Post
Yeah I did it too.It does suck when it happens to you.

I'm thinking she was genuinely interested in you but decided it was a lot of work or (hate to say it) she found another.

You guys think you are the only one that plays the field?lol

I stopped that crap in my 20's.
That could be true, she did

1. Move the date which was originally set for saturday to friday

2. Ask could I meet at 8pm instead of 7pm



so you could be right

 
Old 06-09-2014, 06:33 PM
 
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I seriously need to create another account labeled........."DATING" lol
Let's see how that works out.
 
Old 06-09-2014, 06:34 PM
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Let's see how that works out.
I have one labeled Transportation. lol
 
Old 06-09-2014, 06:39 PM
 
Location: Pa
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That could be true, she did

1. Move the date which was originally set for saturday to friday

2. Ask could I meet at 8pm instead of 7pm



so you could be right
Sad to say the net does make it easier to play the field.
 
Old 06-09-2014, 06:40 PM
 
Location: San Francisco
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I'd give her a day or two. Not everyone replies to texts and voicemails instantly (although it drives me crazy when they don't!). And it may be she's always been advised to wait 24 hrs before responding after a date so she doesn't look desperate. (I disagree with this logic too, but a lot of men and women both believe it).

It's also possible she left her phone somewhere/dropped it in the bathtub, but that's a real edge case scenario.

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I always hear women say if a guy doesn't pay on the 1st date they are not interested
There's also a lot of us who feel more comfortable going dutch on a first date, so there's no perceived sense of obligation for us to put out.

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I mean the quiet fade off is something we all done at some point lol I just don't like when it happens to me.


And why did she ask to sit outside? She fooled the hell out of me, not going to lie
I'm going to take a wild guess that it was a nice day and she likes to sit outside. I know I prefer to, since I spent 60 hours a week in office buildings. Sometimes it's a lot quieter when you sit outside than when you sit inside, so it may have been due to noise, too.
 
Old 06-09-2014, 06:41 PM
 
Location: southwestern PA
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You don't leave it up in the air of why things didn't continue.
Got it!

I thought that the comment was relating to the topic of "acting" on the date....
 
Old 06-09-2014, 07:10 PM
 
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Exactly, back to send an initial message online and starting all over again. I am so tired of being at 0. If I was already dating 2 girls atleast I could brush it off like it wasn't nothing lol

Me and the number 0 are tighter than macaroni and cheese LOL
The reality is, to me at least, is that it takes a bit of manipulation to juggle multiple women/men. When I wasn't taking dating serious, I was definitely using a little bit of manipulation to juggle multiple women. Also, getting a friend from online dating is kind of a joke. There's likely not enough history to where if either one of you met someone, there's a good chance that you will cease to talk to each other. I'm not saying it's not possible, but a lot is up to what you're expecting. When you're looking for a serious commitment, you have to watch out for how many casual relationships you have. They can be a little distracting to say the least.

I'm the first to admit that dating isn't always all that fun. Meeting someone new is always a rush of new and exciting fun, but when they don't want your repeat business, it does become tiresome.
 
Old 06-09-2014, 07:10 PM
 
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Unfortnately that is the risk us men have to take which is why I eliminated dinner a long time ago
Apparently you're not new to the game...

So why do you think that every single female has to fall in love with you?

Especially if you don't buy them dinner....?
 
Old 06-09-2014, 07:21 PM
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Apparently you're not new to the game...

So why do you think that every single female has to fall in love with you?

Especially if you don't buy them dinner....?


it's just so deflating when you click so well on the phone but not in person
 
Old 06-09-2014, 08:16 PM
 
Location: NY
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Apparently you're not new to the game...

So why do you think that every single female has to fall in love with you?

Especially if you don't buy them dinner....?
I didn't get that from any of his posts that he thought that every single female has to fall in love with him.
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