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I've met many women that think women can't be bad in bed. That they just need to be there and a guy is happy. That is, of course, horsebleep and a prime sign to run for the hills.
I'm a virgin (and almost 25)... is that a bad sign for a guy? Haha. I'm curious, I'm not looking to date as I'm trying to move and have given up on dating (single for 5 years)... but I want to know what a guy or guys think about that.
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I'm a virgin (and almost 25)... is that a bad sign for a guy? Haha. I'm curious, I'm not looking to date as I'm trying to move and have given up on dating (single for 5 years)... but I want to know what a guy or guys think about that.
It is to me. Plenty of guys (esp on here) would see it as a bonus. Like almost everything, there is no one answer for guys in general.
For me it's "More talking equals better communication types"
The ones that really have no idea what they think so they just continuously blurt out ideas and random thoughts but never really connect or learn anything.
I have dated a few and by year one I was done. It's like an endless cycle of nonsense and constantly making the same mistakes
It is to me. Plenty of guys (esp on here) would see it as a bonus. Like almost everything, there is no one answer for guys in general.
The two guys I dated didn't like it. They had issues, so both of them only lasted a few months. I classify myself as asexual... but I have other personal issues that I hope a new doctor when I move will help me out with (doctors here, not so helpful).
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The two guys I dated didn't like it. They had issues, so both of them only lasted a few months. I classify myself as asexual... but I have other personal issues that I hope a new doctor when I move will help me out with (doctors here, not so helpful).
The asexuality would be a bigger issue, certainly. If that is what you are, it is what you are. Nothing wrong with it, but dating will be indeed difficult.
The asexuality would be a bigger issue, certainly. If that is what you are, it is what you are. Nothing wrong with it, but dating will be indeed difficult.
Yeah. I was trying to become a member of this one site dealing with it, but you had to e-mail the site admin and never got a response. Since I'm trying to move, I thought it would be a good way to meet others like me. Guess not.
I mean, I love hugging and cuddling... but I just don't have sexual attraction to anyone. Maybe moving, again, will change things... but right now, nope. I haven't had happy experiences where I currently live.
It might be a little bit soon to know if you are asexual. Some people are demisexual (only get attracted after they know someone well or love them), and some are late bloomers (men and women). Plus the 'other personal issues'...
I am glad you are planning to find a better doctor and look into stuff .
It might be a little bit soon to know if you are asexual. Some people are demisexual (only get attracted after they know someone well or love them), and some are late bloomers (men and women). Plus the 'other personal issues'...
I am glad you are planning to find a better doctor and look into stuff .
A womans hotness (especially her body) does in fact go a long way in overlooking some of her crazy behavior, but for the most part, signs of crazy usually means I'll get the heck out of dodge.
These are some of the SUBTLE signs that are usually red flags to me to head for the hills:
1. She's on any type of anti-depressant/mental health meds.
2. She owns more than one cat.
3. Likes and posts things on the Duck Dynasty facebook page.
4. She thinks Michelle Bachman and Sarah Palin are heroes.
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5. Has more dude friends than chick friends. Always a red flag and never a good sign.
6. Constantly talks about her past relationships/boyfriends
7. She likes country music.
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