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My last GF commented one time that she loved the fact I was vocal during sex. I would say that I was enjoying certain things and compliment her on her body or how good she was in bed, etc. I do like that kind of pillow talk, but I would NEVER mention a past lover. That is stupid and tacky IMO, and only serves to hurt the other person.
My SO gets turned on during sex when talking about ex's, the size of their private parts and how we had sex. To me talking is a turn off, PERIOD, especially about ex's! I told my SO, if anything, let's talk about us. I still don't like that because my SO gets distracted and ends up neglecting what should be doing or stopping in the middle to talk. I told my SO this and then says but it turns me on and is upset I don't my SO to do it at all. It is putting a strain on our sex life but we can't seem to meet in the middle.
It's just as bad as calling somebody else's name out during sex like if Jack dated Jill and Jill screams out: "Peterr!! Your dick so big! Peter!!"
She's not in the moment and seems rather obsessed on an unhealthy level..
That's a whole other thread about how guys need to "recharge."
Not always an option
Lol!
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