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Old 08-06-2014, 08:22 PM
 
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It's not defensiveness, hon - it's pointing out the obvious. If you don't include yourself in the "all complaining" then why bother to respond at all?
Well sweetie, I was simply pointing out your error in generalizing.
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Old 08-06-2014, 08:23 PM
 
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If you are a 6 foot tall White guy then your response rate will be very different when compared to an 5"7" Asian guy. Many women, even Asian, Want guys 5'10" or taller. It is funny to see some Asian 5' tall Asian women looking for men 5'10" to 7"1", she thinks she would look better with a 7'1" guy than with a 5'7" guy.
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Old 08-06-2014, 09:04 PM
 
Location: Pa
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If you are a 6 foot tall White guy then your response rate will be very different when compared to an 5"7" Asian guy. Many women, even Asian, Want guys 5'10" or taller. It is funny to see some Asian 5' tall Asian women looking for men 5'10" to 7"1", she thinks she would look better with a 7'1" guy than with a 5'7" guy.
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Old 08-06-2014, 09:39 PM
 
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So let me get this straight, just because we think certain celebs are hot, that's who we women look to date? LOL! I hope you all are joking. I guess we all, (men and women,) should only post pics and videos, in here, only of guys and gals we would normally date and never look and admire those rather exceptionally good looking people in entertainment. Sorry folks, but I find that train of thought quite silly to think because we find someone in the media very eye catching, that's who most grown ups look for when searching through a profile.

I love to look at and admire the human forms of men, means nothing in how I personally choose a mate. Stop the nonsense.

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Old 08-06-2014, 10:07 PM
 
Location: Houston, TX
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No I like average Joe's. I actually question it when a gorgeous guy suddenly takes interest of me.

To post a pic that isn't yours is plain dumb.
Well where were you when the poor guy was trying to get a date?
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Old 08-06-2014, 10:18 PM
 
Location: Houston, TX
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So let me get this straight, just because we think certain celebs are hot, that's who we women look to date? LOL! I hope you all are joking. I guess we all, (men and women,) should only post pics and videos from here on in only of guys and gals we would normally date and never look and admire those rather exceptionally good looking people in entertainment. Sorry folks, but I find that train of thought quite silly to think because we find someone in the media very eye catching, that's who most grown ups look for when searching through a profile.

I love to look at and admire the human forms of men, means nothing in how I personally choose a mate. Stop the nonsense.
You say this and this and that, but your actions speak differently. The guys can hardly get responses, much less a date. They use a pic of a really good looking guy and bam. Seems like what comes out your mouth are 2 different things.
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Old 08-06-2014, 10:37 PM
 
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You say this and this and that, but your actions speak differently. The guys can hardly get responses, much less a date. They use a pic of a really good looking guy and bam. Seems like what comes out your mouth are 2 different things.
How so? Explain, you are privy to whom I do and don't respond to? You haven't any idea who you are making such a ridiculous accusation about. I've dated men than in the looks department some would consider rather unattractive by all standards and to the other end as well, I don't date people based on beauty standards, doesn't mean I will date someone that appears as if they just rolled out of bed and or don't bath.
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Old 08-06-2014, 10:42 PM
 
Location: Houston, TX
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How so? Explain, you are privy to whom I do and don't respond to? You haven't any idea who you are making such a ridiculous accusation about. I've dated men than in the looks department some would consider rather unattractive by all standards and to the other end as well, I don't date people based on beauty standards, doesn't mean I will date someone that appears as if they just rolled out of bed and or don't bath.
I don't know who you are or what you do. All I do is go by what I see, not what I hear.
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Old 08-06-2014, 10:46 PM
 
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I don't know who you are or what you do. All I do is go by what I see, not what I hear.
Example of who I turned down, didn't respond to based on looks and looks alone? I'm trying to figure out these actions that tell this story.
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Old 08-06-2014, 11:22 PM
 
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Example of who I turned down, didn't respond to based on looks and looks alone? I'm trying to figure out these actions that tell this story.
He doesn't understand that you are an actual, human person with an actual real sex life. He think you are just generic 'all women', by which he means, 'all girls his age who are hot enough that he has noticed their existence'.

Which is like 0.0000000001% of all women.
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