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Old 08-16-2014, 07:45 PM
 
Location: CA
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by private i mean not on the internet, but with their buddies hanging around the campfire, or tv set drinking a beer or six. people who are rude ont he forums, are usually rude in real life also. but i think in public most guys that object to enhancements really like them in private.
A lot of men cave to peer pressure when discussing what they find attractive around other men, though.

They get called "gay" or "pedo" by other men if they express a preference for smaller breasts. I've actually heard men admit to that pressure & those name-calling tactics other men use (they do the same concerning size/weight of women). I think this is because men are competitive and like to use rating systems as a way of feeling like their female partner(s) makes them win out over other men. If you have no shared standard of sexiness, then it's harder to compete, so they bully each other into expressing the same tastes.

Honestly, women generally don't do this to each other. I've yet to see it done beyond a few who refer to pretty or boyish men as too girly, but there's way too much preference for pretty types to make much impact there. We have no need to pressure friends into sharing our tastes, our sexuality doesn't get called into question for what we like, and we don't use any rating system to describe someone we find attractive. My friend's tastes & mine vary wildly, and we don't build self-esteem based on whether our friends find our partner hot or not.
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Old 08-16-2014, 07:46 PM
 
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er....fake boobs mean low confidence..so no, i won't date one.
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Old 08-16-2014, 07:54 PM
 
Location: Windsor, Ontario, Canada
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A lot of men cave to peer pressure when discussing what they find attractive around other men, though.

They get called "gay" or "pedo" by other men if they express a preference for smaller breasts. I've actually heard men admit to that pressure & those name-calling tactics other men use (they do the same concerning size/weight of women). I think this is because men are competitive and like to use rating systems as a way of feeling like their female partner(s) makes them win out over other men. If you have no shared standard of sexiness, then it's harder to compete, so they bully each other into expressing the same tastes.

Honestly, women generally don't do this to each other. I've yet to see it done beyond a few who refer to pretty or boyish men as too girly, but there's way too much preference for pretty types to make much impact there. We have no need to pressure friends into sharing our tastes, our sexuality doesn't get called into question for what we like, and we don't use any rating system to describe someone we find attractive. My friend's tastes & mine vary wildly, and we don't build self-esteem based on whether our friends find our partner hot or not.
Nobody ever believes you when you prefer smaller breasts, either.
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Old 08-16-2014, 07:59 PM
 
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Eh, I don't call any man anything for his preferences, whether he wants a woman with small boobs or not butt or anything like that. usually if a guy doesn't mind no butt or small boobs, they'll have more of a preference in other areas. Legs/intelligence,lips/face, anything like that, and also, it's there preference, so if that's what they prefer or don't prefer, it has no effect on me anyway lol.
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Old 08-16-2014, 08:00 PM
 
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i think that is skewed though, since this is a public forum. i am betting that in private the men here would in fact love aftermarket boobs on their lady, if their lady wanted them.
A wise male friend I used to have told me not to worry about anything men say about small boobs (or in this case fake ones). That they're just talking. That all a woman with small boobs has to do around men talking that talk is take her shirt off, and watch what those guys do. They would all instantly shut up and stare, he says. lol I try to remember that, but it's hard sometimes.
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Old 08-16-2014, 08:01 PM
 
Location: CA
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Nobody ever believes you when you prefer smaller breasts, either.
After viewing the "normal breast gallery" (google it), seeing other women in gym locker rooms, and generally just having more non-sexual exposure to boobs than men do outside of porn, I can say I fully get it.
Natural boobs generally look best in the small to medium range (maybe as much as medium-large), not flat and not huge.
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Old 08-16-2014, 08:11 PM
 
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A wise male friend I used to have told me not to worry about anything men say about small boobs (or in this case fake ones). That they're just talking. That all a woman with small boobs has to do around men talking that talk is take her shirt off, and watch what those guys do. They would all instantly shut up and stare, he says. lol I try to remember that, but it's hard sometimes.
he is so right. in reality when ti comes to women and their breasts, we really just cant help ourselves. for guys a womans breasts are the perfect toys, i mean we cant break them, they respond when we play with them, and they send us back to our childhood when we suck on them. so unless the woman that is attached to those lovely breasts is totally hideous and mean, men are going to be interested in her boobs real or not, big, small, midsized, or even lopsided.
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Old 08-16-2014, 08:22 PM
 
Location: Scottsdale, AZ
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he is so right. in reality when ti comes to women and their breasts, we really just cant help ourselves. for guys a womans breasts are the perfect toys, i mean we cant break them, they respond when we play with them, and they send us back to our childhood when we suck on them. so unless the woman that is attached to those lovely breasts is totally hideous and mean, men are going to be interested in her boobs real or not, big, small, midsized, or even lopsided.
IDK, I can be rough in the sack and would be a little worried with implants.
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Old 08-16-2014, 08:23 PM
 
Location: West of Louisiana, East of New Mexico
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They have to match her body. If she has big ones on a larger (chunkier) frame...OK. But a 100 lb girl with 32 H's doesn't work for me. Proportion is important....if the boobs are fake.

Real ones, I don't care. No (real) boob is a bad boob!
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Old 08-16-2014, 08:25 PM
 
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I'm just curious because everyone in camp natural (lol) keeps saying they'd rather smaller breasts than fake... but are we just talking small (as in A or B cups) or completely flat with no breast tissue whatsoever? I had zero breast tissue before I had mine done, my chest was flat and bony like a 10 year old boy. There was absolutely no breast tissue, so there was nothing there to fondle or play with at all. When I tell guys that, suddenly they're okay with it for some reason? I don't know, does that make a difference if a girl literally has nothing there and gets modest surgery to put something there? Cause I definitely think there's a difference between small breasts and no breasts.. heck, I would've been happy with small breasts if I was even lucky enough to have them..
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