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Old 08-30-2014, 05:48 PM
 
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You can get whatever size you want, even just a B cup. When you go for the consult, they give you a bra that holds the implants in, then you try them on and you and the doc pick one that looks the way you want them to. I've known women who got them for sagging after breast feeding, but they got them the same size they already were before. There is no requirement to get huge clown boobs.

No I meant I was saying like growing up I wanted boobs like Pamela Anderson big basically similar in size to many of my female relatives. I would when I was 17 wear double padded bras and then I found ms. marble's youtube vid about big boobs and I started wearing two bras to complete the effect. At that point I looked to be 4 cup sizes bigger than what I was so basically a 32G which was about my ideal size sister size (36DD). I walked around with those for a good year before I realized they brought on really bad attention. I was always really small like (under 90 lbs small) so it looked weird. I went back to my original 32C and just kind of accepted things the way they were. I gained weight and got bigger but then tried to lose weight because with natural big boobs there's always the risk of them going south. I'm now like a 32D. And it's a good full size. Not huge enough to wear a T-shirt braless and still look big but it's as good as I'll get naturally. I still admire really big boobs but I figure on my frame it may look too large on me. I've put that desire to bed mainly.
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Old 08-30-2014, 07:35 PM
 
Location: Between West Chester and Chester, PA
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I would not have a problem with it per se, but if she tells me months into a relationship and if somehow I hadn't noticed she had one, I may have a problem.
It depends on the boob job. If the job left them looking like solid rocks without any bounce, jiggle, or softness, I would pass. Whoever did the boob job should be sued for wrecking a pair of breasts.
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Old 08-31-2014, 09:15 AM
 
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No I meant I was saying like growing up I wanted boobs like Pamela Anderson big basically similar in size to many of my female relatives. I would when I was 17 wear double padded bras and then I found ms. marble's youtube vid about big boobs and I started wearing two bras to complete the effect. At that point I looked to be 4 cup sizes bigger than what I was so basically a 32G which was about my ideal size sister size (36DD). I walked around with those for a good year before I realized they brought on really bad attention. I was always really small like (under 90 lbs small) so it looked weird. I went back to my original 32C and just kind of accepted things the way they were. I gained weight and got bigger but then tried to lose weight because with natural big boobs there's always the risk of them going south. I'm now like a 32D. And it's a good full size. Not huge enough to wear a T-shirt braless and still look big but it's as good as I'll get naturally. I still admire really big boobs but I figure on my frame it may look too large on me. I've put that desire to bed mainly.
That makes sense. For me, I was the "pear" shape, with larger hips and butt, but with small, far apart breasts on a wide chest...I looked unbalanced, Ginger Grant from the waist down, and Gilligan from the waist up. The size they are now (not huge, but full) I look much more proportional.
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Old 08-31-2014, 04:37 PM
 
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That makes sense. For me, I was the "pear" shape, with larger hips and butt, but with small, far apart breasts on a wide chest...I looked unbalanced, Ginger Grant from the waist down, and Gilligan from the waist up. The size they are now (not huge, but full) I look much more proportional.

I'm quite the opposite. Especially when I was younger my hips were really narrow my butt had no fat on it and really tiny thighs and a 24" waist so I was pretty sticklike with a 32C it kinda was the only part of me thsat had fat. Now I've evened ou a little moe bu my hips still have not fat on them and my thighs and butt have minimum fat on them. I'm top heavy so to even out I'd need hip implants. Which do exist.
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Old 08-31-2014, 04:54 PM
 
Location: FL
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With any luck I'm done with dating for good as I have found "the one". I'm very content and quite fond of the 38D's in all their natural glory and would protest any idea that would result in their alteration.
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Old 08-31-2014, 07:55 PM
 
Location: Morgantown, WV
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one of those weird things...I say live and let live, as long as they don't bring some kind of weird mental/attention problem along with it all.
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Old 09-02-2014, 12:57 AM
 
Location: Copenhagen, Denmark
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Not unless my back hurt.
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Old 09-03-2014, 05:59 AM
 
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There's a bit of a "d*mned if you, d*amned if you don't" dilemma for women with small breasts, particularly nearly flat women, as the preference for large ones is held by the overwhelming majority of men. Yet, many of these men will deride breast implants, making it seem like you're just screwed if you're small. Small breasted women get to be degraded by being called boyish if they remain natural or insecure if they augment.

Men's reactions to celebrities & men's magazine models & porn stars who have well-done implants tends to say otherwise though... when well-done, many men seem really naive about detecting implants (at least visually). The vast majority of sex symbols nowadays have also had a minimum of a nose job and some lip plumping too.

Of course, not all are focused on the breasts, but it still must suck to feel attraction to you is "in spite of" your breasts. I'm not small enough to be able to hold this complaint, but neither am I large enough to fit the slender with huge boobs ideal. It does seem like the current female ideal body (& face) is something almost impossible without surgery, a sort of Jessica Rabbit caricature of woman, and yet, it is always claimed that "natural" is the preference. If natural is the preference, then why prefer something which doesn't occur much - if ever - in nature?
I am strongly considering undergoing breast augmentation. I'm a 34B cup (but not a full B cup, so I can wear an A cup bra) and have been for pretty much all of my life. My issue is, I'm very petite and have basically a boy shape (very straight line) due to my size. I would like to have a more womanly appearance, but I realize that breast augmentation shouldn't be taken lightly.

I am in the process of doing extensive research. I have joined numerous breast augmentation websites and I'm meeting with a number of surgeons to determine if this procedure is right for me. I know that I want my new breasts to look and feel very natural. I don't plan to go big, (because it wouldn't go well with my frame). I would like to become a full C cup. I have discovered that there are quite a lot of safe options for women in my predicament. I just wish guys wouldn't lump us all into the "shallow" box.

I'm not shallow. I'm just tired of being flat chested.

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Old 09-03-2014, 06:14 AM
 
Location: georgia
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Probably not, as that tells me that she is more concerned with her appearance than who she really is. The more people do to their bodies to get attention, the more they are trying to distract you from seeing who they are on the inside.
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Old 09-03-2014, 06:23 AM
 
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Probably not, as that tells me that she is more concerned with her appearance than who she really is. The more people do to their bodies to get attention, the more they are trying to distract you from seeing who they are on the inside.
I disagree. I think people should feel comfortable in their own skin. There's nothing worst than having low confidence. Some women simply prefer to have more normal sized breasts if they are small. There's nothing wrong with that.

I love being a woman, and I don't think there is anything wrong with projecting a more womanly outer appearance.
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