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I don't usually post on message boards about this kind of thing and I feel a bit silly doing it, but here goes...
Ever since getting out of a long term relationship over a year ago, I have been using online dating. It came as a pleasant surprise when a good looking guy asked me to dance at a friend's wedding and asked for my number at the end of the night.
He contacted me a week later and we went out to dinner on a Saturday night. He picked me up, paid, and we had nice convo. There was no physical contact. He didn't contact me the next day. I decided to text him saying "thanks for dinner again. I had a great time" He responded promptly saying my pleasure and that he did too. We did not speak again for 4 days and I moved on.
On Friday ( nearly a week after our first date), he contacted me again and went out again. Had fun at an amusement park. Again, he didn't initiate any physical contact. I leaned in and kissed him on the cheek when he dropped me off at night- he didn't take that close contact any further.
Anyway, now it's Monday afternoon and I haven't heard from him since our date on Saturday night. All circumstances considered, is it safe to assume he's not interested in me and just move on?
Thanks!
"Oh the games people play now
Every night and every day now
Never meaning what they say now
Never saying what they mean..."
He is playing you. The reason(s)? Beats me. It won't turn out good.
Kind of sad that if a guy isn't overly aggressive in terms of trying to have sex quickly that he's not interested... He may not be interested, but as someone else said, maybe he just moves slowly.
Also kinda sad that so many are saying he's playing her, playing hard to get, not interested.. Move on.
It's only been a couple of days and a holiday weekend to boot.
It doesn't make sense to me.. Maybe miserable people really do love company.
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