Welcome to City-Data.com Forum!
U.S. CitiesCity-Data Forum Index
Go Back   City-Data Forum > General Forums > Relationships
 [Register]
Please register to participate in our discussions with 2 million other members - it's free and quick! Some forums can only be seen by registered members. After you create your account, you'll be able to customize options and access all our 15,000 new posts/day with fewer ads.
View detailed profile (Advanced) or search
site with Google Custom Search

Search Forums  (Advanced)
Closed Thread Start New Thread
 
Old 09-17-2014, 07:01 PM
 
1,198 posts, read 1,179,283 times
Reputation: 1530

Advertisements

Quote:
Originally Posted by GoCUBS1 View Post
I agree with some of what you said (re: visual stimulation), but an adult film worker is no alpha male. Alpha males have real power (not merely selfish bedroom dominance) and don't need a job requiring c*m shots. Power is through strategy/influence, not physical/sexual dominance. And plenty of alpha males like to be subordinate in the bedroom - an escape from always having to be dominant in the boardroom. Have always been surrounded by true alpha males, not beta-male porn workers. Do you think bouncers are alpha males also?
I started out in the music industry at a very young age. I got into drugs and found my way into porn and selling drugs by the time I was old enough to get into a club. I eventually got my **** together and went back to school at 24. I now work as a physical therapist and live a clean life, but a lot of my success stems from the fact that I'm a good looking guy. I'm not delusional to that. You've taken an issue with my statement about beta males because it most likely applies to you. Jealousy will get you nowhere in this world friend. Trust me when I say that the guys that work in porn are alpha in every sense of the word. If you can't understand this, then you most likely don't understand what an alpha male actually is.

You should watch this. Sarah is one of the truest people I've ever met despite the fact that I never worked with her. Everything she says in this video is spot on to my experience in the industry. I personally do not fit everything she is talking about, but she tells it like it is. The guys in your boardroom would get bent over by some of the guys I've worked with in the right scenario. Just saying.....


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=P3chjnwR3tg

 
Old 09-17-2014, 08:22 PM
 
Location: Chicagoland
5,751 posts, read 10,373,730 times
Reputation: 7010
Quote:
Originally Posted by lucky4life View Post
I started out in the music industry at a very young age. I got into drugs and found my way into porn and selling drugs by the time I was old enough to get into a club. I eventually got my **** together and went back to school at 24. I now work as a physical therapist and live a clean life, but a lot of my success stems from the fact that I'm a good looking guy. I'm not delusional to that. You've taken an issue with my statement about beta males because it most likely applies to you. Jealousy will get you nowhere in this world friend. Trust me when I say that the guys that work in porn are alpha in every sense of the word. If you can't understand this, then you most likely don't understand what an alpha male actually is.

You should watch this. Sarah is one of the truest people I've ever met despite the fact that I never worked with her. Everything she says in this video is spot on to my experience in the industry. I personally do not fit everything she is talking about, but she tells it like it is. The guys in your boardroom would get bent over by some of the guys I've worked with in the right scenario. Just saying.....
You misunderstand what an alpha male is. An alpha male holds the the highest power rank in a society. An alpha male has real power in this world gained by influence and strategy. Physical and sexual dominance do not make an alpha male. Good looks do not make an alpha male. I take no issue with you as I am neither male, nor beta - I guess I am the alpha female who partners with the alpha male - if you want to say it that way.

Porn stars are not representative of alpha males, no mater what Sarah Jay says. Those geeky guys in the boardroom not getting laid as often as you (Zuckerberg, Gates, etc.) are the alpha males. Some of those geeky guys may even prefer women near their own age (gasp). So when you are truly surrounded by alpha males, then your opinions on what they prefer may hold some weight.

Have you read "Of Mice and Men?" The characters who are the physically strongest and have the most base instincts to make love or to fight - those are the characters who have the least amount of power. They are the beta males. The work illustrates the alpha/beta male relationship perfectly - there's a reason why it's a classic. It's truth about male power dynamics is timeless and universal.
 
Old 09-17-2014, 09:03 PM
 
Location: Middle of the valley
48,518 posts, read 34,807,002 times
Reputation: 73729
Quote:
Originally Posted by lucky4life View Post
Here is the truth that most women don't want to hear. All a woman really has to do to be good in the sack, is to keep their body in check and be willing to let a guy have sex with them without a hassle. Willingness is the ultimate trait that will make a woman great in bed. Male anatomy isn't exactly rocket science. A good looking girl that will let a guy shove her face into a pillow every day regardless of the fact that she's into it, is a girl that will never be single............real talk

Ok, maybe for you access only is the ultimate aphrodisiac, but honestly what you are calling good sex above is what most men complain about in a partner. Something I agree with. I can't say all a man needs is a steel pole every night.... I like a man who has more going on in the sack then that.

I guess that is the discerning palate of a man who learned everything he needed to know by 18.
__________________
____________________________________________
My posts as a Mod will always be in red.
Be sure to review Terms of Service: TOS
And check this out: FAQ
Moderator: Relationships Forum / Hawaii Forum / Dogs / Pets / Current Events
 
Old 09-17-2014, 09:09 PM
 
Location: Chicagoland
5,751 posts, read 10,373,730 times
Reputation: 7010
Quote:
Originally Posted by lucky4life View Post
This entire post is complete fail. Your dork husband is not an alpha. If he was, you would be kept in check. The fact that you have an opinion proves otherwise LOL Individuals that poses the alpha genes don't always hold the highest ranks in our society. The military or people born into money are a perfect example of this. If you dropped Bill gates and Mike Tyson off on a deserted island, Bill would literally be mikes slave by the end of the first day.

We have other forms of rank in our society. The whole alpha male thing is more of a thing that subconsciously exists; however, women still flock to these men, and men still subconsciously submit to guys like this regardless of how rich they become. You're completely lost on this subject.
We are no longer in Neanderthal age - times have a-changed Mr. ex-porn star, physical therapist. Physicality no longer equals male dominance as island armageddon ain't happening. Power is the aphrodisiac. Men are ranked by power, not strength, looks, or sexual stamina. Sorry if this does not bode well for your type. There is a reason why "the hot chick" goes for the "ugly dude." Women are attracted to the real power of a Bill Gates, not the barbaric antics of a Mike Tyson. The Mike Tyson's are not getting the girl.
 
Old 09-17-2014, 09:18 PM
 
Location: Illinois
4,751 posts, read 5,436,394 times
Reputation: 13000
Quote:
Originally Posted by lucky4life View Post
I've worked in the adult film industry, and I've slept with a lot of women. I won't spend anymore time educating women on this board in regards to what most men actually desire, but I will leave you with this; no trick or technique that you feel has made you better in bed over the years will ever compete with taking an attractive younger woman to pound town for most men. It's in our nature to be visually stimulated and dominant in the bedroom. Even when a girl is doing all the work older women still are no better. I've received oral on film from women in there late teens and women in their late 20's and there is absolutely no difference in skill. Some are better than others, but it has nothing to do with age once woman has gotten her feet wet in that department. You might get a few white nights or beta-males that will argue this and perpetuate the erroneous belief that older women are better in bed, but I'm here to tell you that it's simply not true. This is one one the main reasons men go for younger chicks. It's not just the fact that they're easier to be around.
Porn is not, and has never been, real life. If the stories you tell are indeed true, then your outlook and conception of real sex has been completely twisted. Thinking that sex is just "pounding away" at a woman isnt' sex - it's using a warm body as your masturbatory tool. And that's just sick.
 
Old 09-17-2014, 09:27 PM
 
1,198 posts, read 1,179,283 times
Reputation: 1530
Quote:
Originally Posted by MoonBeam33 View Post
Porn is not, and has never been, real life. If the stories you tell are indeed true, then your outlook and conception of real sex has been completely twisted. Thinking that sex is just "pounding away" at a woman isnt' sex - it's using a warm body as your masturbatory tool. And that's just sick.
And that's why most women have a problem with porn............they don't want to know the truth.
The thing you ladies aren't getting is the fact that I'm not speaking for women.
 
Old 09-17-2014, 09:29 PM
 
Location: The Hall of Justice
25,901 posts, read 42,686,307 times
Reputation: 42769
How many children do you have, lucky4life? An alpha who doesn't reproduce is an oxymoron--just saying. Silverbacks don't shoot blanks.
 
Old 09-17-2014, 09:36 PM
 
1,198 posts, read 1,179,283 times
Reputation: 1530
Quote:
Originally Posted by GoCUBS1 View Post
We are no longer in Neanderthal age - times have a-changed Mr. ex-porn star, physical therapist. Physicality no longer equals male dominance as island armageddon ain't happening. Power is the aphrodisiac. Men are ranked by power, not strength, looks, or sexual stamina. Sorry if this does not bode well for your type. There is a reason why "the hot chick" goes for the "ugly dude." Women are attracted to the real power of a Bill Gates, not the barbaric antics of a Mike Tyson. The Mike Tyson's are not getting the girl.
Whatever LOL

Mike Tyson was married to an A list celebrity, and he was convicted of raping ms Rhode Island. Bill Gate's wife isn't even hot.
 
Old 09-17-2014, 09:38 PM
 
1,198 posts, read 1,179,283 times
Reputation: 1530
Quote:
Originally Posted by justjulia View Post
how many children do you have, lucky4life? An alpha who doesn't reproduce is an oxymoron--just saying. Silverbacks don't shoot blanks.
who knows
 
Old 09-17-2014, 09:49 PM
 
Location: Chicagoland
5,751 posts, read 10,373,730 times
Reputation: 7010
Quote:
Originally Posted by lucky4life View Post
Whatever LOL

Mike Tyson was married to an A list celebrity, and he was convicted of raping ms Rhode Island. Bill Gate's wife isn't even hot.
Right... because raping Ms Rhode Island indicates an alpha male, and a non-hot wife indicates a beta. You have some real twisted thinking Mr. Beta.
Please register to post and access all features of our very popular forum. It is free and quick. Over $68,000 in prizes has already been given out to active posters on our forum. Additional giveaways are planned.

Detailed information about all U.S. cities, counties, and zip codes on our site: City-data.com.


Closed Thread


Over $104,000 in prizes was already given out to active posters on our forum and additional giveaways are planned!

Go Back   City-Data Forum > General Forums > Relationships

All times are GMT -6.

© 2005-2024, Advameg, Inc. · Please obey Forum Rules · Terms of Use and Privacy Policy · Bug Bounty

City-Data.com - Contact Us - Archive 1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 10, 11, 12, 13, 14, 15, 16, 17, 18, 19, 20, 21, 22, 23, 24, 25, 26, 27, 28, 29, 30, 31, 32, 33, 34, 35, 36, 37 - Top