Husband wants to help his work crush out with finances (wife, married)
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My husband has developed a crush on his work friend, he says he wants to figure out why she is in his life yet doesn't want to break up with me. He says I need to trust him. He seems to think that God has sent him this woman and he is supposed to help her out. He said hes confused. Even through we are financially not well off he says he wants to help her out financially...since she is homeless and just lost her job. I have told him this is wrong in every way but he seems to think I am being ridiculous. The only way I even found out about her is because I saw him texting her on his phone. I am hurt from all this and can't figure out what to do, I want our relationship to work as we've been together 10 years. When I get angry about the girl it seems to push him away more, but I find it so hard to be kind and accepting of the situation. What to do???
My husband has developed a crush on his work friend, he says he wants to figure out why she is in his life yet doesn't want to break up with me. He says I need to trust him. He seems to think that God has sent him this woman and he is supposed to help her out. He said hes confused. Even through we are financially not well off he says he wants to help her out financially...since she is homeless and just lost her job. I have told him this is wrong in every way but he seems to think I am being ridiculous. The only way I even found out about her is because I saw him texting her on his phone. I am hurt from all this and can't figure out what to do, I want our relationship to work as we've been together 10 years. When I get angry about the girl it seems to push him away more, but I find it so hard to be kind and accepting of the situation. What to do???
He definitely is confused. I have a tough time believing God wants him reaching out to this woman at the expense of his own wife. People who use God to rationalize their wrong doing make me sick.
Call a divorce attorney, get your ducks in a row, and kick him out. If she's so wonderful, let her deal with his bad habits, dishonesty, and cheating ways.
He definitely is confused. I have a tough time believing God wants him reaching out to this woman at the expense of his own wife. People who use God to rationalize their wrong doing make me sick.
^^^^^ I agree.
It would be a good idea for you to pray to God about this. Then follow what he tells you.
I would definitely ask him to leave immediately and not return until he is no longer "confused". Meanwhile, I would talk to a divorce attorney about protecting your assets.
My husband has developed a crush on his work friend, he says he wants to figure out why she is in his life yet doesn't want to break up with me. He says I need to trust him. He seems to think that God has sent him this woman and he is supposed to help her out. He said hes confused. Even through we are financially not well off he says he wants to help her out financially...since she is homeless and just lost her job. I have told him this is wrong in every way but he seems to think I am being ridiculous. The only way I even found out about her is because I saw him texting her on his phone. I am hurt from all this and can't figure out what to do, I want our relationship to work as we've been together 10 years. When I get angry about the girl it seems to push him away more, but I find it so hard to be kind and accepting of the situation. What to do???
Your husband is anything but normal, why would someone who is married have a "work crush" and get angry that you don't accept it? No one else would either.
Is this chick like bag lady homeless, or what? Have they had sex?
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