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hihiyahiii, your BF should undergo a professional psychiatric treatment by taking Androcur. It will lower his sexual drive to that of a normal healthy person. Try and persuade him to do that as soon as possible.
If you're not comfortable with his behavior, that's all he really needs to know. If he continues it anyway, he's obviously not the right guy for you. It's been 3 months, so while you may care very much for him, you don't know him well enough to be "deeply in love." Nor does someone who treats you so disrespectfully deserve your love. Cut and run.
Lots of red flags. Him being creepy and you being "deeply in love" after only 3 months are reasons for both of you to run, not walk, away from each other.
I've found that he watches live webcams of girls, though he denies chatting with them or interacting with them. I can't explain it but knowing that there's a real live person at the end of the other line makes a difference to me. Again, I can't pinpoint the distinction between a webcam and a video but there somehow is one in my head and it deeply upsets me. Maybe someone can help me out here? I've also found out that he enjoys trading nudes with anonymous strangers online.
Get out of there. He is cheating on you, and it doesn't matter whether he is giving nudes to randoms or to your best friend. You are lucky you realized this about him 3 months in and not several years in. Move on to someone who deserves your time and who will see why it's wrong to watch webcam girls and do cyber sex on Omegle (and yes, that site is basically only used for that reason).
Hey everyone, I'm in a bit of a situation with my bf and I'm really not sure what to do. For the most part, we're extremely happy with each other and our sex life is great. We have only been with each other for 3 months but the bond we've developed is strong and we would do anything for each other. However, I recently found out that he has a porn addiction and I'm absolutely devastated over it. I know porn has become so commonplace in our society and that we are often told to "just accept" that our partners will watch it. At first, I was a bit uneasy with it but I've become okay with him viewing porn videos. What I'm hurt by is the fact that his obsession seems to be excessive and seems to have gone past videos. I've confronted him about it and he admits that videos simply aren't doing it for him anymore. Honestly, I feel a bit concerned that it's gotten to that point that he's become desensitized...but anyway...
I've found that he watches live webcams of girls, though he denies chatting with them or interacting with them. I can't explain it but knowing that there's a real live person at the end of the other line makes a difference to me. Again, I can't pinpoint the distinction between a webcam and a video but there somehow is one in my head and it deeply upsets me. Maybe someone can help me out here? I've also found out that he enjoys trading nudes with anonymous strangers online. That, to me, doesn't seem like something a man in a relationship should be doing. The one-on-one interaction component of this just seems to violate the exclusivity of our relationship and I'm deeply disturbed that he's sharing his body with someone else other than me. Also, he chats with girls on Omegle and Kik. I honestly hadn't heard of these sites before but after googling them, I am suspecting that the chats are of a sexual nature but he swears that they're not...
We've had a long talk about it and he says that he's incredibly sorry and never meant to hurt me intentionally. He says he didn't think about me while he was doing these things- as if that's supposed to make me feel better- but isn't the fact that he's not mindful of my feelings a problem in and of itself? He tells me it won't ever happen again but I'm reluctant to believe that it's that easy of a habit to correct.
Anyway, I think I am just at a loss for words. I am deeply in love with this man. I don't know how to proceed. Is this okay behavior since no physical cheating happened? Have we become so progressive that this sort of thing has become acceptable and I'm just old-fashioned? I am torn between my heart and my brain and I would just appreciate any sort of advice or guidance on the matter. Thanks in advance...
Half of all cheating never gets to the physical stage, just FYI.
It doesn't matter whether WE think his behavior is "okay", it only matters whether or not YOU think it's okay.
But I will say this.... to thine ownself be true.
If you are not comfortable with what has happened then you owe it to yourself to reevaluate your status as his girlfriend.
Follow your gut instincts on this or live to regret it.
Hey everyone, I'm in a bit of a situation with my bf and I'm really not sure what to do. For the most part, we're extremely happy with each other and our sex life is great. We have only been with each other for 3 months but the bond we've developed is strong and we would do anything for each other. However, I recently found out that he has a porn addiction and I'm absolutely devastated over it. I know porn has become so commonplace in our society and that we are often told to "just accept" that our partners will watch it. At first, I was a bit uneasy with it but I've become okay with him viewing porn videos. What I'm hurt by is the fact that his obsession seems to be excessive and seems to have gone past videos. I've confronted him about it and he admits that videos simply aren't doing it for him anymore. Honestly, I feel a bit concerned that it's gotten to that point that he's become desensitized...but anyway...
I've found that he watches live webcams of girls, though he denies chatting with them or interacting with them. I can't explain it but knowing that there's a real live person at the end of the other line makes a difference to me. Again, I can't pinpoint the distinction between a webcam and a video but there somehow is one in my head and it deeply upsets me. Maybe someone can help me out here? I've also found out that he enjoys trading nudes with anonymous strangers online. That, to me, doesn't seem like something a man in a relationship should be doing. The one-on-one interaction component of this just seems to violate the exclusivity of our relationship and I'm deeply disturbed that he's sharing his body with someone else other than me. Also, he chats with girls on Omegle and Kik. I honestly hadn't heard of these sites before but after googling them, I am suspecting that the chats are of a sexual nature but he swears that they're not...
We've had a long talk about it and he says that he's incredibly sorry and never meant to hurt me intentionally. He says he didn't think about me while he was doing these things- as if that's supposed to make me feel better- but isn't the fact that he's not mindful of my feelings a problem in and of itself? He tells me it won't ever happen again but I'm reluctant to believe that it's that easy of a habit to correct.
Anyway, I think I am just at a loss for words. I am deeply in love with this man. I don't know how to proceed. Is this okay behavior since no physical cheating happened? Have we become so progressive that this sort of thing has become acceptable and I'm just old-fashioned? I am torn between my heart and my brain and I would just appreciate any sort of advice or guidance on the matter. Thanks in advance...
You need to decide if you want to continue to live like this and if your "perfect for me man" is so perfect for you after all.
If you want to continue to live like this then do so and accept the fact his behavior will more than likely not stop.
If you don't want to continue to live like this then move on immediately and live your life the way you want to.
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