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Old 11-16-2014, 12:20 PM
 
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She had a baby, shes tired, grumpy, feels ugly, has formula/breastmilk/milk on her, has been pooped/peed and puked on, shes likely not showered, really wants a break........and YOU want a 3 way.
She looks fine. She lost all the weight she gained (which wasn't much) withing 6 months after birth. She has barely any marks at all.

 
Old 11-16-2014, 12:22 PM
 
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Things don't have to be mutually exclusive. The baby is the priority. That doesn't mean not being interested in sex anymore.
Ok I hate to break it to you, but a huge part of her desire for sex comes for you......meaning that her lack of desire comes from you too....Once you come to terms with the real reason why her interest in sex has diminished, the sooner you can figure out how to change that. It's as clear as day....just look real close in the mirror...
 
Old 11-16-2014, 12:24 PM
 
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Wow. Seriously. Wow. I can't believe that your girlfriend wasn't thrilled that you took matters into your own hands and approached someone you worked with about having sex with you and your girlfriend. I mean, she sounds really ungrateful. I would let her know who makes the decisions in the relationship and whose opinions matter by inviting your colleague over for the threesome even though your girlfriend wasn't too keen on the idea. I mean - the nerve of her not being into having sex with you and another woman that you work with! Better yet - just have sex with your colleague with out your girlfriend! That will show her!
Can't understand the sarcastic tone. It went wrong but my intentions were good.
 
Old 11-16-2014, 12:26 PM
 
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Can't understand the sarcastic tone. It went wrong but my intentions were good.
You need to face it, your "intentions" were selfish.
 
Old 11-16-2014, 12:28 PM
 
Location: Katonah, NY
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Can't understand the sarcastic tone. It went wrong but my intentions were good.
Your intentions were not good. You asked your coworker to sleep with you and your partner with out even asking if your partner would be into a threesome in the first place. Come on. You can't really be thIs in the Dark about why It all went sO asTray? I mean - you are basically telling your partner that she isn't enough for you - and you even went ahead and told your coworker about it before her. Seriously. What is wrong with you?
 
Old 11-16-2014, 12:28 PM
 
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You need to face it, your "intentions" were selfish.
Why? I just wanted to break the daily stress and give her something different. The baby is a lot of work and she does most of it.
 
Old 11-16-2014, 12:28 PM
 
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Can't understand the sarcastic tone. It went wrong but my intentions were good.
Really?
 
Old 11-16-2014, 12:31 PM
 
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Can't understand the sarcastic tone. It went wrong but my intentions were good.
Your intentions were good?

"Honey, I know you're exhausted from caring for the baby day and night all year. So I brought "Muffy" home so she can have fun with us while the baby's at your parents' place this weekend."


How does a threesome solve the problem? What does it have to do with the problem at all? The fact is, you have no idea what your wife would be like in bed if she had a break from the baby and was able to get well-rested. You might try finding out. She could well surprise you.
 
Old 11-16-2014, 12:31 PM
 
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Why? I just wanted to break the daily stress and give her something different. The baby is a lot of work and she does most of it.
Yeah...

But you did not ask her first whether or not she felt comfortable with that.

The first thing you did was to approach a hot female co-worker.

Then you told your girlfriend.

How did you expect her to feel after telling her that?
 
Old 11-16-2014, 12:34 PM
 
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Why? I just wanted to break the daily stress and give her something different. The baby is a lot of work and she does most of it.
Not buying what you are working so hard to sell

No real man is this clueless.
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