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And just because your coworker sleeps around, how did you know that she would go for a threesome? Just a lucky guess.....or had you been telling her about your lack of a love life (how would your SO feel about you sharing that with this person)?
I just guessed she would be interested, she flirts with me on occasion as well.
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I'm thinking this woman has been on your radar for a while and perhaps bringing her in like this would mean you could sleep with her without cheating on your girlfriend....yeah, you're a real catch!
No, she hasn't been on my "radar". I'm committed to my partner. I just believe she would be interested and yes, she's very attractive, but that was it.
Why? I just wanted to break the daily stress and give her something different. The baby is a lot of work and she does most of it.
So, why would you not bring her a man and offer to let her get it on with him while you take the baby out for a day?
I'm kidding, but do you see my point here? Unless your girl is bisexual, you don't get how offering to have sex with her and another woman isn't an insult?
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We've discussed it before. Not in our plans, wouldn't change a thing and we would spend money needlessly.
It would change a lot if this relationship fizzles out, for instance custody issues. Can make things very ugly!
Have you tried helping her around the house? Cleaning, cooking, laundry, grocery shopping????? That might have a little more impact on her than -- hey, this woman at work.......
Again, the solution to "the baby is a lot of work and she does most of it, daily stress" etc. is a nanny, not a Playboy Playmate for mommy.
This. Dude, I have to agree with some of the other posters--nobody could be this clueless. Could they? Even after all these posts, you still don't get it? You still think you did the right thing, and your gf is being unreasonable? Is that even possible?
Not true.
A committed partner would be more responsive to HER needs, not your wants.
A committed partner would not solicit a flirty coworker to "spice things up", unless he KNEW that would please her.
You are not committed, you have no clue what she needs, and you are selfish.
I'm kidding, but do you see my point here? Unless your girl is bisexual, you don't get how offering to have sex with her and another woman isn't an insult?
This. Dude, I have to agree with some of the other posters--nobody could be this clueless. Could they? Even after all these posts, you still don't get it? You still think you did the right thing, and your gf is being unreasonable? Is that even possible?
No, I don't think she's being unreasonable. I'll apologise.
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