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Old 11-16-2014, 01:03 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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I still have a bit of trouble with certain things and he's very accustomed to his mother.
Because you never take him.

Time to be a dad.

 
Old 11-16-2014, 01:03 PM
 
Location: My House
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Really!
How can any man be soooooo clueless??
I'm baffled on this one. Truly baffled.

Even IF his partner was bisexual, unless she'd specifically indicated that she wanted to have sex with a woman and had maybe pointed out this woman in particular, why on earth would he go asking a coworker to get together with him and the MOTHER OF HIS CHILD without, you know... asking the MOTHER OF HIS CHILD first???
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Old 11-16-2014, 01:04 PM
 
Location: Katonah, NY
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I still have a bit of trouble with certain things and he's very accustomed to his mother.
What do you still have trouble with? It's been a year and you still don't know how to take care of the baby? That's hard for me to believe.
 
Old 11-16-2014, 01:08 PM
 
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What do you still have trouble with? It's been a year and you still don't know how to take care of the baby? That's hard for me to believe.
I don't know certain details like she does, I'm afraid of not doing it right, etc.
 
Old 11-16-2014, 01:11 PM
 
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Why in a million years would you imagine that a straight woman would want to have sex with another woman? Do you not understand female sexuality at all? Much less your partner of 6 years?

I think it is hilarious that you are trying to paint this an anything but your hamfisted attempt to get some strange.

Your poor GF must be wondering in horror what kind of man she chose to have a child with!

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Old 11-16-2014, 01:12 PM
 
Location: Baja Virginia
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I don't know certain details like she does, I'm afraid of not doing it right, etc.
It's not rocket science. I'm sure she'd be more than happy to show you the details.
 
Old 11-16-2014, 01:17 PM
 
Location: Katonah, NY
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I don't know certain details like she does, I'm afraid of not doing it right, etc.
After a YEAR??? It's time to grow up. You are a dad. Start acting like one.
 
Old 11-16-2014, 01:21 PM
 
Location: Baja Virginia
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Why? I just wanted to break the daily stress and give her something different. The baby is a lot of work and she does most of it.
Good idea for relieving her stress: Offer to help her with the baby.

Bad idea for relieving her stress: Ask a co-worker to have sex.

You might want to print this out and carry it with you.
 
Old 11-16-2014, 01:22 PM
 
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I don't know certain details like she does, I'm afraid of not doing it right, etc.
Sorry, this kind of gives you away. Unless you can give an example of what it is that you don't know about caring for your own toddler, your story has no credibility and makes you appear to have had no contact with young children at all, ever.
 
Old 11-16-2014, 01:24 PM
 
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My partner and I have been together for 6 years and we have a 1 year old son. Things are not so good when it comes to sex since the baby was born, which is natural. She's more worried, more tired and I understand all of that.

So to spice things up, I approached a female colleague at work regarding a threesome. I know she's very frisky and would go along with it. She immediately said that she was up for it.

So I thought we could leave our son with the grandparents for the weekend so we could have fun all the 3 of us.

When I told my partner about it, she went mad. She said she couldn't believe I was suggesting such a thing, that I have no respect for her and that it's a disgusting idea. Then I told her that if she preferred we could have an escort instead of a woman I know if she feels more comfortable. She said she just couldn't recognise me and that went away.

We haven't spoken in these past few days. I've tried to speak with her again but she avoids me.

I mean, I thought it was a good idea to improve things in bed. I couldn't imagine she would be so prudish. I've tried this with a previous girlfriend and it didn't change a thing.

What should I do?
Most people do have some respect for themselves and are of the human family not an animal with animal behavior.....
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