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I haven't kissed that many girls, but I do know a good kisser from a bad one. The last three girls, however, have been disappointments. One used way too much tongue (I felt she was trying to rape my mouth with her tongue). One constantly hit her teeth against mine. The latest was just too wet and sloppy. Literally had the sensation to pull away to wipe the moisture off my lips. I shut it down with each of them over it. Such a turn off.
Those are 3 of worst kissers there. I've experienced the first and 3rd, no thanks to the 2nd type.
Bad kissers usually are not much of a sensual person, they do it based on the idea of what they thought kissing is about.
Maybe what one person considers good another doesn't... so there ends up being a lot of variation. Generally, I would think, you will learn and gravitate more to what your current partner likes the most. Your next partner may not like that so much... but of course your own likes mix in as well.
I'm old now and it makes me sad to think that there are still so many bad kissers out there. When I was in my 20s I read an article in Cosmopolitan magazine that told how to be a good kisser. I took those tips to heart and apparently favorably impressed many a young man (as in, "Wow you're a fantastic kisser! Where did you learn to kiss like that?")
But boy, were there a lot of bad kissers in my day: The Pointy Tongue Darter, The Teeth Licker, The Tonsil Examiner, and the worst: The Vacant Cave (why on earth would someone think it's sexy to just open up wide, keep their tongue clamped down, and let you futilely try to find some landmark in the gigantic abyss that is their mouth?)
I'm old now and it makes me sad to think that there are still so many bad kissers out there. When I was in my 20s I read an article in Cosmopolitan magazine that told how to be a good kisser. I took those tips to heart and apparently favorably impressed many a young man (as in, "Wow you're a fantastic kisser! Where did you learn to kiss like that?")
But boy, were there a lot of bad kissers in my day: The Pointy Tongue Darter, The Teeth Licker, The Tonsil Examiner, and the worst: The Vacant Cave (why on earth would someone think it's sexy to just open up wide, keep their tongue clamped down, and let you futilely try to find some landmark in the gigantic abyss that is their mouth?)
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So what were these tips then?
The best tip I ever got, and it served me very well, was from an early girlfriend who was trying to teach me (she had much more experience). It was "kiss with your lips, not with your mouth"
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