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Most guys that I've had any chemistry with were good kissers but I ran into a notable exception a few weeks ago. Mind you, I'm old and this man is 61 and very good looking and out-going, so I'm assuming he's dated a lot. Great chemistry--could talk about anything--then he kissed me. It was like. . . nothing. No anything. His lips were like a wall and you couldn't get past them. Well it was like kissing a wall and that wall wasn't kissing back. I tried to warm it up a little, while keeping in mind that we were not going to be sleeping together yet, but he was an unbreachable defense. He stood rather rigidly too, so I couldn't even get a decent hug. I had started talking to another man on the same weekend, and he is a great kisser and with him things are going great.
For the folks saying that you can teach a bad kisser, I don't know. I had an ex who wasn't into kissing in the beginning of the relationship--and NO, it wasn't me as I am a fanatic about oral hygiene and he said himself he just wasn't into kissing--and after we were together for a while, I saw why: He just wasn't good at it. He was one of those chicken-peck kissers, never really got any depth or connection, and dry as hell.
Which really rather sucked, especially because the person I dated before him was the best kisser ever in the history of planet Earth and I still think about it 9 years later. I mean, this guy had it going on--knew where to put his hands, when to touch my face, how to vary pressure, when to stop during a slow dance and tip my face up under the chin and go for it, even did the ol' dip-kiss.
My thought was that maybe if you are in the business of sampling several that you are kissing and being kissed without the passion that really makes a kiss a kiss. You're kissing the frog instead of your prince or princess. Lots of frogs but how much feeling and passion can you expect to get out of just kissing the frogs. Seems desperate.
My thought was that maybe if you are in the business of sampling several that you are kissing and being kissed without the passion that really makes a kiss a kiss. You're kissing the frog instead of your prince or princess. Lots of frogs but how much feeling and passion can you expect to get out of just kissing the frogs. Seems desperate.
Too many people never get enough practice. The secret is to practice on various types of melons, but department-store manequins are even better, if you can find one. Easiest is to just go into the department store sometime when it's fairly quiet; you can listen for anyone approaching, but if you go in the middle of the day, you should be OK. Put a little lipstick on the mannequin and go to town. You'll bet better in no time.
My thought was that maybe if you are in the business of sampling several that you are kissing and being kissed without the passion that really makes a kiss a kiss. You're kissing the frog instead of your prince or princess. Lots of frogs but how much feeling and passion can you expect to get out of just kissing the frogs. Seems desperate.
Some of us have no choice. The frog that I thought was my prince turned out to be a toad so I got turned back out into the the cold cruel frog world and yeah, I've kissed a few.
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The frog that I thought was my prince turned out to be a toad so I got turned back out into the the cold cruel frog world and yeah, I've kissed a few.
