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Old 01-17-2015, 12:07 PM
 
Location: Katonah, NY
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Everyone is different. I don't think it matters as much what the text says as long as it was sent quickly. My husband isn't great with words - never has been - but when we were dating, I knew how much he was into me when we were together and his texts and calls let me know that I was on his mind.

 
Old 01-17-2015, 12:09 PM
 
Location: Denver, CO
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I dated a guy like this. He used to send me generic texts like that after a hot night in bed together and I thought he was being ironic and humorous. Turns out he had mild Aspergers and he really didn't get how funny those "polite" post coital texts were. I still laughed though, and would usually respond with a photo of my cleavage.
What's that saying? "The reports of me having Autism have been greatly exaggerated."

You guys and your asinine accusations.

Perhaps telling her that "I can still taste her from last night" or "I miss being ***** deep in her" would have been more apropos?

It's a text message for crying out loud. I can proclaim my enthusiasm for her in person. And I can show her, like I did last night, if you get my drift.
 
Old 01-17-2015, 12:15 PM
 
Location: State of Transition
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Perhaps telling her that "I can still taste her from last night" or "I miss being ***** deep in her" would have been more apropos?
It's a text message for crying out loud. I can proclaim my enthusiasm for her in person. And I can show her, like I did last night, if you get my drift.
Um, well, y'know, fleur.....that's not a bad idea.


I can see how, if someone was raised in the Bible Belt, it might seem risque, but .....




oh well.
 
Old 01-17-2015, 12:16 PM
 
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Perhaps telling her that "I can still taste her from last night" or "I miss being ***** deep in her" would have been more apropos?
LOL NO! If that is the best flirtation you can come up with I suggest sticking to the generic "nice time" messages.

Geez!

(PS, yes Ruth I was raised in the Bible Belt )
 
Old 01-17-2015, 12:18 PM
 
Location: Katonah, NY
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I think you guys need to give the guy a break. He went out with her again, had a great time, sent her a text shortly after he left her. All seems to be going fine.
 
Old 01-17-2015, 12:18 PM
 
Location: Denver, CO
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Um, well, y'know, fleur.....that's not a bad idea.
"Be a gentleman, Lafleur. But be a perverted gentleman."

Ladies, the dirty talk will happen. Trust me. Just give it some time though.

Now go back to your Fifty Shades of Grey and let me do this thing.
 
Old 01-17-2015, 12:18 PM
 
Location: State of Transition
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LOL NO! If that is the best flirtation you can come up with I suggest sticking to the generic "nice time" messages.

Geez!
I kind of liked it. The first one, anyway. A little enthusiasm isn't a bad thing. But maybe it's too early in their whatever-ship.
 
Old 01-17-2015, 12:19 PM
 
Location: Denver, CO
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I think you guys need to give the guy a break. He went out with her again, had a great time, sent her a text shortly after he left her. All seems to be going fine.
I mean, can't a guy do anything right on this forum? Every move is a f*** up it seems.
 
Old 01-17-2015, 12:19 PM
 
Location: State of Transition
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"Be a gentleman, Lafleur. But be a perverted gentleman."

Ladies, the dirty talk will happen. Trust me. Just give it some time though.

Now go back to your Fifty Shades of Grey and let me do this thing.
You've been a pretty good sport through this whole thing, OP. All things considered. Honestly, we were just trying to help. Nice to hear the good news. Carry on.
 
Old 01-17-2015, 12:20 PM
 
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God Lafleur, I hope you're not as awkward in bed as you are in this forum about her.
OMG! My coffee is all over my keyboard!

In our defense, I think Lafleur is getting some excellent advice here on wooing a woman that he seems willing to apply. And yes, the "perverted gentleman" angle is a winner once you are in a sexual relationship with someone.
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