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Old 01-31-2015, 08:49 AM
 
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Offer her money for what? Sex? Companionship? To pay your check and give her a good tip?
offer her money to make her like me
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Old 01-31-2015, 08:51 AM
 
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offer her money to make her like me

No amount of money will force anyone to like you if they don't already like you.

Either ask her out or don't, your choice but don't complain when you don't ask her out and you missed your change at a possible long term relationship.
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Old 01-31-2015, 08:55 AM
 
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No amount of money will force anyone to like you if they don't already like you.

Either ask her out or don't, your choice but don't complain when you don't ask her out and you missed your change at a possible long term relationship.
i have a feeling that she might be vain, like hes ugly. that is why i am afraid
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Old 01-31-2015, 08:55 AM
 
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Oh for petes sake. Money can't buy affection or love.

Honestly.
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Old 01-31-2015, 08:56 AM
 
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offer her money to make her like me
OP:

You cannot make anyone want to like you enough to want to go out with you.

No-one can.
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Old 01-31-2015, 08:57 AM
 
Location: Kingstowne, VA
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How old are you?
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Old 01-31-2015, 08:57 AM
 
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i have a feeling that she might be vain, like hes ugly. that is why i am afraid
Okay, your choice to carry on and use/find every excuse possible as to why you "can't" do something when the truth is you "won't" do something because it makes you uncomfortable.

There is nothing quite as satisfying as stopping oneself from doing something, it saves them the time they would have used to blame someone else for their self made issue.
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Old 01-31-2015, 08:59 AM
 
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Oh for petes sake. Money can't buy affection or love.

Honestly.
And if the OP thinks that he has to buy her *or any other girl's* affection, then that person is not worth dating.
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Old 01-31-2015, 09:02 AM
 
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And if the OP thinks that he has to buy her *or any other girl's* affection, then that person is not worth dating.
Exactly. Years ago I had a clapped out old ford f100 pickup that had rusted out floorboards, tire problems and oil leaks. That was also a litmus test. If a girl was willing to ride and be seen in that POS she was worth my time.
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Old 01-31-2015, 09:07 AM
 
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Exactly. Years ago I had a clapped out old ford f100 pickup that had rusted out floorboards, tire problems and oil leaks. That was also a litmus test. If a girl was willing to ride and be seen in that POS she was worth my time.
i am not really the type that gives women things to be honest. but i would do it with her as some people told me my past relationships may have sucked because i did not give my women anything. but for some reason i feel its more than that, but some women told me no women wants a man that aint got nothing to give.
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