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I sent a message to this girl on a dating site and left her my number so we can talk. So she called me but I noticed her number was blocked on the caller id and was like........."ok she probably needs to get a feel for me first before giving out her number" So we talked for the first time tonight on the phone and then after about 40 mins she was about to get ready for bed. So then I said........"Ummm can I have your contact #"
Then she went through this whole thing about how she had scary experiences with guys she met through the site and would rather meet me face to face before giving her me her number. So now I am going to sleep on this and will most likely wake up and decide I no longer have interest. I thought the purpose of talking to someone the first time on the phone was to determine if you WANT to give the guy your number.
And I don't think she understands that she is not the only woman on the site and once someone who gives me her number who looks just as good as her or better I am moving on lol Something won't allow me to meet a woman face to face if I don't have their contact number so we probably won't meet.
Any other guys come across any paranoid women like this online?
Dude, seriously? Run.
I had someone do something similar. She actually didn't want to meet unless she had friends around citing that I could possibly kill her(her exact words). I always meet in a public setting for MY protection. Just because a woman is not as strong as me, doesn't mean she can't have a guy near by, a gun or a knife.
In the end, I got tired of hearing the whole, "This happened to me in the past" Well you know what? I am not your past, I am YOUR future. A woman that puts her insecurities on me due to HER past dating mistakes is not worth it.
Think of it like this, you gave her a shot and she started on fair ground, you started 6 ft under and have to climb your way back up due to her crappy dating choices.
I sent a message to this girl on a dating site and left her my number so we can talk. So she called me but I noticed her number was blocked on the caller id and was like........."ok she probably needs to get a feel for me first before giving out her number" So we talked for the first time tonight on the phone and then after about 40 mins she was about to get ready for bed. So then I said........"Ummm can I have your contact #"
Then she went through this whole thing about how she had scary experiences with guys she met through the site and would rather meet me face to face before giving her me her number. So now I am going to sleep on this and will most likely wake up and decide I no longer have interest. I thought the purpose of talking to someone the first time on the phone was to determine if you WANT to give the guy your number.
And I don't think she understands that she is not the only woman on the site and once someone who gives me her number who looks just as good as her or better I am moving on lol Something won't allow me to meet a woman face to face if I don't have their contact number so we probably won't meet.
Any other guys come across any paranoid women like this online?
It strikes me as extra cautious on her part (likely justified given her experiences), but I wouldn't call it even remotely "paranoid." If it's a dealbreaker for you, go ahead and move on to someone who will give you her #, and let her move on to someone who won't call her paranoid for being justifiably cautious. Win-win.
My point being there is only one 1 AM, and only one 1 PM. It's redundant and silly to add "in the morning" or "in the afternoon" when you're already saying AM or PM. (I didn't think I would need to explain this.)
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Something won't allow me to meet a woman face to face if I don't have their contact number so we probably won't meet. 
